I’ve 2 kids, 16 and 14, and they’re both really miserable in school. My 16dd is emotional anyway but she’s also generally cheerful. My 14ds takes life as he finds it so it’s particularly shocking to see him hating anything, let alone school where he is a lot of the time.
We’re in Ireland and they’re both going into exam year next year, Leaving Cert and Junior Cert, but that isn't a high priority for either of them- neither are academic and both have good work ethics outside school. It seems somewhat crazy to move schools just because they’re miserable but it hasn’t changed in 2 years for my DS or 4 years for my DD. They both loved primary school.