So I'm currently on holiday in Crete with my DP and our daughter who is 2.5 years old. She's being really fussy with food and hardly eating anything other than bananas, ice cream and chocolate but is drinking plenty of water. I just got annoyed because he called me a pushover. There is a disco for children every night from 8-9pm and she hasn't quite finished her banana and he said 'you aren't leaving the table until you finished' it was a large banana and she simply didn't want anymore and wanted to get to the disco. I told him you can't make her finish if you don't want to and that sometimes telling children they can't leave the table until they've finished can cause issues with food such as eating disorders etc (my dad was like this with me. It took me well into my adult years to get comfortable with food after he left) he then called people with disorders attention seekers and when I mentioned I had a friend who died from anorexia he just said 'it's all psychological'. He's been moody so on and off. Just wants to drink beer and sit on his phone. Yesterday I was playing with my daughter in the arcade and asked me to hold her whilst I got off the 'motorbike' with her he said 'can't you play with her for more than 30 seconds' I simply said 'I asked you to hold her whilst I get off' I don't drink, I haven't had a drink whilst here, it's her first holiday and I want her to have fun. He likes to go to the gym here after breakfast and also have 45 minute poo's but when I want to straighten my hair, I'm the problem and the one taking ages. Just a little moan I guess but I just want it to be enjoyable. AIBU to let this all bother me?