So I have an almost 10 month old son. I have had issues with his dad since the start of my pregnancy we split then
He used to have our baby 1 night a week and now he wants to do every other weekend when I don't think that's appropriate until he's older as a baby needs consistency
He doesn't ever ask or check up on our child. He has just been on a 2 week holiday with his girlfriend and her kids and his older child. He told me that they have been fighting and she has been attacking him and he slapped her back . She is pregnant and due in October with his 3rd baby. He told me things are going to change when baby arrives. He doesn't buy anything for our son he refused to lay for nursery and pays child maintenance whar we agreed. He's now saying as the holiday has skinted him out he can't give me child maintenance for the next few weeks when I am struggling with money myself at the moment.
1 - I don't want my baby in an environment where they are fighting and my son could be at risk. She also has said negative things about my son she resents him as he is basically the other child to her
2 - he is inconsistent with money and now refusing to pay due to going on holiday
3 he is trying to get less and less contact and with his new baby coming I can see this getting worse
He also told me he has just bought a house and is planning to have drugs ( cannabis ) in there illegaly to get more money. So I've told him I don't want my son near that house but that is where he will be living
I can't claim csa as he's told.me he will dodge it as he is self employed and I wontnget anything
I cannot cope anymore and I just feel like stopping everything as I'm really worried about the future and he has done enough damage as it is. And as my son grows I don't want him thinking he is the other child being left out and in toxic environments. I have never felt so stressed. And yes I deeply regret getting pregnant with this man. I love my baby so much but this is the worst thing I've ever been through. I just wish he wasn't involved at all