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When to go back to work after chest infection?

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YellowSubmarine994 · 18/05/2024 19:29

I'm asthmatic and picked up a pneumonia-type chest infection for which the GP gave me antibiotics for 7 days and rescue steroids. I'm currently on day 5 of 7, so Monday would be my last day of antibiotics. I'm also asthmatic, hence why I was given rescue steroids. My symptoms (breathless, chest pain etc.) have mostly gone now but I do feel wiped out and very tired. I don't feel rested when I wake up (unusual for me) and feel like I want to go back to bed most of the day.

I'm also in the middle of moving house, have a very unwell relative in hospital, and a few other things that are adding to my stress.

I'm a teacher and have already had more than my fair share of sick days this year. I could do with the rest, but also am very worried about losing a job over amount of time off, as well as feeling very guilty as the kids are without a teacher.

AIBU to take another few days off to rest and recuperate as well as deal with moving house, poorly relatives etc. without the additional stress of work too?

YABU - you're no longer too symptomatic, so get back to work ASAP

YANBU - pneumonia is no joke, get a doctor's note for additional time off work

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YellowSubmarine994 · 18/05/2024 19:42

Just to add a bit more context:

I'm working on an exit strategy from teaching because my immune system has taken a beating and I'm just off sick too much. The guilt is immense.

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PensionPuzzle · 18/05/2024 20:01

Well, you're either well enough to work, or you aren't. The rest is not directly linked to that and as it's half term very soon, I think I'd be going back to work if I were healthy enough and dealing with the other stuff during the holiday as far as you can with those different things.

rwa818 · 18/05/2024 20:13

Basically go back when you're well enough. I took over a week when I had flu a few months ago, very unlike me but I just felt so wiped out.
Take at least a few more days then see how you feel. If you go back too soon it will take you longer to get back to normal.

YellowSubmarine994 · 18/05/2024 20:17

PensionPuzzle · 18/05/2024 20:01

Well, you're either well enough to work, or you aren't. The rest is not directly linked to that and as it's half term very soon, I think I'd be going back to work if I were healthy enough and dealing with the other stuff during the holiday as far as you can with those different things.

This is where I'm stuck. Could I push through until half-term? Yes, possibly. Equally, will I be sleeping every minute I'm not in school, lack of energy for taking care of my daughter as all my energy went on school? Also yes, possibly.

I have a really complex about quite what is and isn't fit for work

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YellowSubmarine994 · 18/05/2024 20:22

YellowSubmarine994 · 18/05/2024 20:17

This is where I'm stuck. Could I push through until half-term? Yes, possibly. Equally, will I be sleeping every minute I'm not in school, lack of energy for taking care of my daughter as all my energy went on school? Also yes, possibly.

I have a really complex about quite what is and isn't fit for work

Also a case of whether I have the energy to turn up and entertain 30 stroppy teenagers without losing my patience as that is a tough one when exhausted. Am I well enough to turn up - yes. Am I well enough to make a good job of it - no. So am I well enough for work or not in that scenario

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PensionPuzzle · 18/05/2024 22:03

For me when I get to the point where setting cover is more trouble than it's worth (and we have a really good system and cover staff, so it's not even that hard to do for me) I know it's time to go back in, although possibly teaching lower-key lessons for a few days.

It reads like you are leaning towards not being ready, so take the time to get better if you need it.

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