I matched with someone on Tinder (we’re both women), we got along great and decided to Videochat. We had a nice chat which went very well, and we arranged to do it again a few night’s later.
In the meantime, we casually text back and forth.
At one point she calls me “Chris”, which is not my name! When I respond with a simple question mark “?”, she says it was an autocorrect error.
I move on and don’t think anymore about it.
We had arranged the time for last night, I got a text to say she was running 30 minutes late, fine not a big deal.
30mins comes and goes… I send her a text and ask if she’s on her way?
She texts back an hour later saying it’s late, she’s very tired, and she’s going to sleep!
I responded by telling her she could have told me that an hour ago, at which point I could have happily slept myself!
She texted me 7am this morning to say it was a misunderstanding and she thought I needed more time and she had been waiting for me - Whaaat!?
I wished her well in life, then blocked and deleted her number before she had anymore time to come up with goodness knows what!
Thank you Mumsnet! Years of hanging about this place has made me no nonsense with zero tolerance for tomfoolery!
(A real pity, I was attracted to her and it seemed mutual, and we seemed on the face of it very compatible and it seemed promising)
Has Mumsnet made you ruthless also?