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To wish you could still just turn up & swim

110 replies

Haveli · 18/05/2024 15:42

All of the pools local to me used to have smaller children's pools where you could just rock up, pay and swim. Now you have to book a session at specific times. Dd was desperate to go swimming today but nowhere has a session. There was one 2-3 but it was already gone 2 at this point.

I get that they have lessons on at certain times but I've checked and there's none this afternoon so just whyyyy.

AIBU to think this is just stupid and annoying that you cant just decide to go swimming anymore or am I missing something?

OP posts:
PuttingDownRoots · 18/05/2024 17:33

Less pools, more people wanting to use them. Supply can't keep up with demand

BeachHutsAndDeckchairs · 18/05/2024 17:34

At the council one near us you can just turn up - we did over the Easter holidays - but for the one with the waves and the lazy river and the ice skating etc I think you have to pre-book and yes it's annoying; you can't just take each day as it comes as easily when you have to plan everything in advance.

OneWildNightWithJBJ · 18/05/2024 17:36

I hate having to book everything. I’m not sure if we have to book for swimming as I haven’t been for ages, but so many things you need to book for nowadays. Sometimes you just want to decide what to do last minute.

Although I’d rather book than be turned away, we never actually used to be turned away from anything.

Growlybear83 · 18/05/2024 17:37

I much prefer the booking system. I used to hate going for a swim and finding it really crowded.

LoreleiG · 18/05/2024 17:38

Agree, it’s annoying. I don’t want to have to decide a week ago that I fancy taking the kids swimming.

Seashor · 18/05/2024 17:40

Very annoying I agree. I love being spontaneous.

Runningbird43 · 18/05/2024 17:42

fieldsofbutterflies · 18/05/2024 16:19

But it was only pre-COVID that you could still just turn up and swim - we're not talking about the eighties or anything.

No it was the same when my kids were little 20 years ago. Only you couldn’t pre book.

the swimming pools were open for a hour at a time around lessons, lane swimming, aquarobics etc.

then they had a rule where under fives had to be one adult one child supervision, and under 7’s one adult two children. That meant the session filled up extremely quickly, if you weren’t queuing 30 mins earlier you were stuffed.

then they had the amazing idea to make swimming free for under 16’s. Great in theory, but meant groups of 20 or 30 teens went in and everyone else turned away.

i think I even got as far as writing to my mp about the lack of accessibility. I had something like 5 pools within easy reach, and it wasn’t unusual to have to drive between 2 or 3 before we got in.

elliejjtiny · 18/05/2024 17:44

It's like that at soft play too. You have to book at least a week in advance, otherwise it's full, then you only get 2 hours and it's heaving.

BogRollBOGOF · 18/05/2024 17:48

The 45 min thing is really annoying. It churns everyone out into the changing rooms at the same time into sensory chaos. 45 mins is too short to waste the session time to get out early to shower and beat the crowd surging out as the next session ploughs in. It's only just worth the travel: time ratio.

It was a brilliant example of counter-productive Coz Covid- let's Social Distance the swimming session then overlap everyone in the changing rooms together 🤦‍♀️

I never had issues with pool capacity in the early 2000s, turn up, swim, leave when ready and all for £2. Those were the days.

I took up open water swimming in the end. It's less aggro. The swans are easier company than Splashy Front Crawl Man too.

DinnaeFashYersel · 18/05/2024 17:48

No pre-booking at any pools near me.

dizzydizzydizzy · 18/05/2024 17:48

There's a national shortage of lifeguards, plus all costs associated with running a pool - chlorine and power - have gone up enormously. It's a cost saving.

modgepodge · 18/05/2024 17:50

Totally agree. I hate having to prebook everything all the time.

that said, I do remember in the 1990s occasionally having to wait around at the pool reception as they were running a one in one out system on super busy days. I guess pre booking avoids that.

Also agree it has become insanely expensive.

ineedtostopbeingdramaticfirst · 18/05/2024 17:51

Yes for weekends and holidays you have to book a few weeks in advance in our area. Annoying as sometimes we might want to be spontaneous

fieldsofbutterflies · 18/05/2024 17:53

LoveWine123 · 18/05/2024 16:30

I don’t know how it was in the 90s, but it’s how it was where I live in London before Covid. Crowded and unpleasant when it came to pools, soft plays and other children’s venues. As I said, I much prefer the current booking system.

As I say, it was never an issue at any of the pools we went to (and there were several, all run by different local authorities).

I haven't bothered to go swimming since COVID as I don't want to have to plan so far in advance and pre-book a set time.

ControlShiftDelete · 18/05/2024 17:54

I swear years ago when I was a child/teenager going swimming was a whole day event where we spent hours there. I can't be arsed to get dressed and then swim for an hour and come out again because the session ended.

RDMPrules · 18/05/2024 18:04

Yes, pre Covid you could turn up at our pool. Also you could buy a batch of 10 swim tickets which worked out about £2.80 for children and £4.50 for adults, and then use them whenever you went. Kids over 8 were allowed to swim without an adult and there wasn't a time restriction unless there was a aqua class or similar scheduled.

During Covid they stopped acccepting these and you had to book through a useless app which only allowed you to book a family swim which cost £8 per adult and £4 per child and no possibility of booking a child on their own. It took a big argument to persuade them to eventually let me use the tickets I paid for in 2019, in 2022. Since then I've not been swimming. I went in the other day and I see it now costs £6 per child for a 45 min session you have to book. No thanks.

DaniMontyRae · 18/05/2024 18:16

fieldsofbutterflies · 18/05/2024 16:25

Really? That was never an issue at any of the pools I went to in the nineties - we just turned up whenever and went for a swim!

It was an issue at my local leisure centre pool in the 90s and 00s. On Saturdays and some school holidays you could be queuing for up to an hour to get in. It was a popular attraction and due to safety couldn't be a free for all.

toothache23 · 18/05/2024 18:17

Totally agree with this. There are hardly any sessions during the weekday morning where we live so on my days off we can't go. Weekends are more relaxed but dd is little and I'd prefer to take her when it's quieter. It's always booked out for lessons or lanes.

Natsku · 18/05/2024 18:34

Sounds like a horrid system. I was over in the UK a couple of summers ago and thought I'd take the children swimming and then discovered the whole booking malarky and couldn't take them.
Thankfully not like that where I am, even in covid times (once the pool re-opened after lockdown) it was still the normal way where you just turn up whenever you want during opening hours and swim. Time limit is technically 90 minutes I think but as there's no sessions as such, there's no feeling that you have to get out after 90 minutes, usually stay for 2 hours including sauna time. They keep the special stuff like aqua aerobics for Mondays when the pool isn't open to the general public so no need to worry about other groups using it except for during half term when there's special events on for children.

taxguru · 18/05/2024 18:44

fieldsofbutterflies · 18/05/2024 16:13

I'm sure pools never used to have to worry about capacity when I was younger!

More people because of population increase and fewer pools so its' obvious they're going to be busier.

In our town, there used to be 3 public pools, one was a huge council one and two were school pools open to the public evenings and weekends. All three closed down and now we have a new, inferior/small council leisure centre pool. Hardly surprising it gets too busy and people are turned away!

TheYearOfSmallThings · 18/05/2024 18:48

I agree OP, and I don't think it is due to COVID because it happened before COVID.

In the old days you could just turn up, pay cash, and walk in. Now you can only pay online and to do that you have to set up a membership, and how much it costs depends on the tier of membership, and you have to give lots of personal information just for one 45 minute swim, and they really don't care how long it takes you because it takes them no time at all. And the same is true for everything from a cinema ticket to paying to park your car for an hour in a town you won't be visiting again.

Floogal · 18/05/2024 18:52

A hangover from COVID restrictions. Also, I live in quite a big touristy town and there is only ONE swimming pool. They have also a booking system, as well as higher prices and the gala pool is still always overcrowded (due to swimming lessons and kids being crowded out the fun pool) which leads to aggressive men hogging the only 3 lanes available. No wonder people don't go swimming

GnomeDePlume · 18/05/2024 18:55

I was a lifeguard back in the 80s. The pool was open from 8am to 6pm on a Saturday. Parents would drop their kids in the morning with the entry fee and 10p for the hot chocolate machine. Pick up would be late afternoon.

Unsurprisingly the pool would end up rammed and it wasnt unusual for an ambulance to be called for unsupervised kids taking a tumble and needing stitches.

They were not the good old days.

SwordToFlamethrower · 18/05/2024 18:56

Booking systems are awful! I can't plan my life in advance!

UprootedSunflower · 18/05/2024 18:59

I went to a pool a while ago. You used to be able to just swap between the big and small pools. They are a few feet apart with no barrier. It’s really annoying with mixed ages having to choose, the little one gets too cold in one, the bigger one gets bored in the small pool.
Last time I went I booked the small pool, we were the only 3 in there. Another woman booked the big pool, she and her kids were the only three in there. Her two were getting cold, I suggested we switch.
The lifeguard went mad, shouted at us. I tried to ask why. He said it was about capacity. I pointed out that between a full size pool and a large training pool we were the only six people in the entire building, also neither pool would have a capacity of 3! Plus it was like for like numbers wise.
I was told he’d ban us if we even swapped kids to supervise and stayed in the pools ourselves as the named booking person + 2 children. Really fucking petty.
I also hate the fact sessions are 45 min, they run at awkward time for me. Say I have an hour free, I end up having to choose twenty min at the end of one session, or the twenty min at the beginning of the next. For an extortionate price too.