My son was recently diagnosed with autism with a PDA profile. He presents as what would traditionally have been described as ‘high-functioning’ autism or Asperger’s, as in he has good language skills, has friends, can attend mainstream school nursery etc. However he needs an extremely high level of care, constant 1:1 supervision, has catastrophic meltdowns multiple times a day, can at times be very aggressive. His autism is extremely disabling and our lives are significantly impacted. I work much less than I would like to because he can’t cope with longer than half days at nursery and I doubt he’ll be able to attend school full time either.
I knew nothing about DLA until a Health Visitor told us about it and encouraged us to apply. I’m just wondering which rate we’re likely to get. Obviously there are children with even higher care needs out there who presumably would get a higher rate than us.
Also wondering if we’re likely to get the mobility component as he doesn’t have a physical disability, but he does refuse to walk frequently when he’s having a meltdown, meaning that we can’t stray too far from the car when out in case we can’t get back to it. When I’m on my own with both kids it’s very hard to leave the house safely.
We think we’re going to start having to pay for private OT sessions for him, so trying to work out if DLA would help us pay for this.