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Young child alone in park- safe for now but what next

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watchuswreckthemic · 16/05/2024 23:05

Long one for context/
We have a local small play park which is on the road of a bus route.
Tonight there were a few small teenage groups behaving lovely (some who I recognise), some dog walkers around and a young child.
I assumed the young child was with the dog walkers until she came into the fenced off play equipment and started to engage with me and my youngest.
They asked me to push them in a swing etc and I asked 'do you live close' to which she replied 'I live there' and pointed at a house. I then asked 'are you allowed to play here alone' and they said 'yes my mum knows, she's in bed but I'm okay'.
We left soon after (7pm) but I said 'I think you should go home' etc repeatedly but she stayed.
When I got home my child indicated that they knew this child was about 5.
Via the teenagers I know parents and the teenager themselves etc we know she got home safe this time (as in a vague report from one of them, after a few of the girls trying to encourage her home it seems she did let herself in). Feedback from them is her mum is of the angry sort.

I'm genuinely worried. She had her uniform on so I know what school she attends (infants!) and I know the office staff and teachers from my kids going there.

AIBU for making a safeguarding type of call tomorrow to the school?

OP posts:
Littleslowloris · 23/05/2024 13:44

I called the police when I found a young (aged about 7) child playing unattended in the park. I stayed with her until they arrived. I would do exactly the same again.

Barleysugar86 · 23/05/2024 13:50

Monstermunch2 · 20/05/2024 17:50

Still in her uniform playing out
No one got her changed in to home clothes,no one probably fed her either.
Poor mite
Ss and school ,keep reporting until something is done

I don't know anyone who changes their kids out of their uniform once they come home- unless the kids have a club its uniform until bath/ pjs for us. they put a fresh set of uniform on each morning.

Bertietomo · 23/05/2024 22:40

Please make a call to the school!

Trictactosa · 24/05/2024 14:08

How lovely to have a park as your front garden.
Such a shame that it's no longer the norm for kids to be out playing in groups. Makes it less safe for everyone.

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