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AIBU?

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To have screamed at DH??

6 replies

Unfitmother · 03/04/2008 17:59

I stayed calm yesterday when, as we were going to bed he started looking for my car keys. I'd had his car yesterday as mine was in the garage (DH working from home). He spent ages looking, he had driven my car back from the garage and was the last one to have them.
I looked again for 15 mins this am then, as previously agreed, took his car again.
Was sweetnes and light when I phoned him and heard the ridiculous story of where he'd found them as I was just delighted that they'd turned up (only have 1 set).
I picked dcs up and when we got home ds pointed out the parking ticket in the deepest corner of the passenger side of the windscreen.
I'd forgotten that my hospital now has a private company running that car parks charging patients and charging staff for permits. Mind you even if I'd remembered I couldn't have got the permit out of my car as DH had lost the keys.
It just tipped me over the edge and I had a bit of a rant then cried
Dh tried to advise to pay up as there is a discount for early payment but I pay every month through my salary anyway!
Had a shower, managed to calm down. Have really bad PMT and am aware I'm over-reacting. Didn't want to row with DH so told him "I need to be on my own for a while". I never say that but guess what - he wouldn't leave me alone, just kept wittering on and I lost it and shouted at him.
WIBU?

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hercules1 · 03/04/2008 18:02

Yes, but you were stressed and upset and human.

Niecie · 03/04/2008 18:05

A little bit but you did try and avoid a row and DH didn't take the hint so I can understand why you lost it. It isn't like you didn't warn him.

Is there any chance you could explain the situation to the powers that be and get let off the fine - after all you have paid so you have the right to park there?

bubblagirl · 03/04/2008 18:05

i think you have had a very bad day and understandable go up and get big cuddle from him dont blame him it was just a bad day for you

ask him if he would pay it for you

Quattrocento · 03/04/2008 18:05

The answer to AIBU is almost always YABU

but I understand why and so does your DH

go and give him a hug

Unfitmother · 03/04/2008 18:13

OK, IWBU

I think I'm forgiven, we usually take dcs to their swimming lesson together but he's going on his own to give me a rest!

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BetteNoir · 03/04/2008 18:15

Oh bless him!
Enjoy your bit of peace and quiet.
Then apologise for screaming at him.
His sounds a bit disorganised.
But screaming is never nice.
But neither is PMT.

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