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Coffee etiquette in the office

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hattie43 · 13/05/2024 18:16

In our office of 3 up to sometimes 6 we have long asked for a decent coffee machine so far to no avail .

This means I'm finding it difficult to go and grab a coffee without asking everyone else , but making a variety of coffee, hot chocolate, tea with our kettle takes so bloomin long .
Same with when I want a Starbucks I feel obliged to ask everyone else .

What do you do where you are , get your own or offer a ' round ' to everyone else .

OP posts:
Whatelsecouldibecalled · 14/05/2024 07:21

We have a hot water urn in the kitchen. With 3/6 people I would offer a round. There's a list on the kitchen wall of what everyone usually drinks tea milk sugar etc.

Beautiful3 · 14/05/2024 07:35

Make your own. When they offer, say no thanks. I hate making drinks for other people, just want to make my own, exactly how I want it and get back to work.

MiddleParking · 14/05/2024 07:45

Only having to be responsible for what I personally eat and drink and when is one of the best things about going to the office. I would loathe being expected to join in rounds! A few of us go to the kitchen together for a break and a chat but we all do our own.

Lovethistimeofyear · 14/05/2024 07:47

Buy a one cup cafetière

FrogTheWarrior · 14/05/2024 07:52

I used to say, listen I’ll do my own thing with drinks so just crack on. I couldn’t bear it when the resident tea pot would drop hints every half hour and I would only really have a couple every day. I didn’t care what anyone thought, it worked for me and I wasn’t stopping them getting what they wanted.

I worked in one place where there was a laminate sheet on the wall of how everyone took their drinks! And collecting up dirty mugs to wash was part of the round 😖

Hankunamatata · 14/05/2024 07:56

Just stop. Never been in this situation before. Everyone has always just made their own.

Get your coffee before you go into work and take it in with you

FofB · 14/05/2024 10:14

I've got a brilliant thermos mini-flask- looks like a water bottle but it keeps my coffee really hot. So I make myself a proper coffee at home in the morning and pop it into the flask. Obviously no good for cappuccino- but by lunchtime, it's still hot. In fact, I've drunk it at 3pm and it's still hot.

betterangels · 14/05/2024 10:30

hattie43 · 13/05/2024 18:23

That's the thing , if I get a Starbucks and offer others it's expected I'll pay as a treat , the others may offer round a pkt of biscuits but multiple coffees is expensive .

Just stop doing this. They're taking the piss because you let them.

Rewis · 14/05/2024 10:42

In the kitchen: everyone makes their own tea. If you're drinking coffee at a socially accepted coffee break time you do the full pot and and people serve themselves.

Takeaway: you go pick your own. No need to ask anyone else.

Idontjetwashthefucker · 14/05/2024 10:49

I just say I don't want one when someone's making a round, then 5 minutes after they have theirs, I decide I want one but then no-one else does so it's just me Grin

I'm not getting involved in brewing up for 15+ people

mitogoshi · 14/05/2024 10:53

Tea or instant coffee plus hot water machine, keep it simple

Savemykitchen · 14/05/2024 11:04

I've found that in companies where there are enormous tea rounds it's often the case that a lot of people don't have much work to do, and it fills the time.

If I'm going for a coffee I'd mention and invite others but I'm not going to buy theirs.

Haydenn · 14/05/2024 11:05

hattie43 · 13/05/2024 18:23

That's the thing , if I get a Starbucks and offer others it's expected I'll pay as a treat , the others may offer round a pkt of biscuits but multiple coffees is expensive .

You’re a mug and they’re taking the piss. If you go to a coffee shop for people they should easily ping you the money.

TabbyM · 14/05/2024 11:06

We do rounds but usually only 2 or 3 folk wanting and wouldn't offer if never reciprocated. Some people do their own and don't get offered.... Nobody buys takeaway coffee for everyone!

sweetpickle2 · 14/05/2024 11:06

I've bought rounds for takeaway coffees before with a certain group at a job before, but it was always reciprocated/people took turns etc. No way would i be offering and paying for them all if nobody ever bothered getting me one back. Get a grip and stop doing it!

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