My husband wanted to borrow my phone to search for something he needs on Facebook marketplace (he doesn't have FB). Fine. I set him up with the thing he was searching for, and he took my phone up to peruse the search results whilst having a bath.
After half hour or so, I went in to take my makeup off, and asked if he'd had any luck. He didn't hear me approach as the extractor fan was on, so as I came in I could see he was weeks deep in to my internet search history.
This has really annoyed me. I don't have anything to hide and have never given him reason to distrust me, so I'm pissed off that he felt the need to probe that thoroughly. I mean, my darkest secret is probably spending more on skincare than he'd imagine.
This is the second time I've caught him. Last summer when we had a holiday rental in Spain, I left my phone on the balcony table and went in because our son was crying. When I came down, I could see through the patio doors that he was again doing a deep dive through my Internet history.
Neither time have I said anything as I guess he'll get defensive and it will lead to an argument that I don't want. I'm just annoyed as I have literally never given him a reason to distrust me. The irony is he had an affair years ago, yet I would never go through his Internet history! What's the point being with someone if you don't trust them.
Would your partner going so deep in to your search history annoy you? I don't know if I'm justified feeling pissed off when I don't have anything to hide anyway.