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It’s. Not. A. Councillor

29 replies

TheExclusiveSandwich · 11/05/2024 03:01

it is a counsellor

I know I’m probably BU

i don’t care 🤷‍♀️

OP posts:
StandingOvulation · 11/05/2024 03:06

Your right 😉

AstonUniversityPotholeDepartment · 11/05/2024 03:09

You're absolutely not unreasonable. In fact, you're more reasonable than Mrs Reasonable, Five-Times Winner of the Annual Wednesbury Reasonableness Awards.

eurochick · 11/05/2024 05:39

Well it depends. Both can be right. They are different roles.

Councillor = member of a council
Counsellor = someone who counsels

CurlsnSunshinetime4tea · 11/05/2024 06:06

If you work for the city and sit on council you are a councillor, school board as well.

CheshireDing · 11/05/2024 06:09

YABU

it depends on which role you are talking about

BigButtons · 11/05/2024 06:10

A counsellor could also be a councillor.

TheExclusiveSandwich · 11/05/2024 06:45

BigButtons · 11/05/2024 06:10

A counsellor could also be a councillor.

Lol yes! Parking probs AND feelings

OP posts:
TheMarzipanDildo · 11/05/2024 06:48

I don’t think I’ve ever had cause to write the word counsellor. Which is good because I would definitely have spelt it wrong.

restie · 11/05/2024 06:55

I ve noticed this countless times too..surprised that it gets muddled up so often...nearly as common as draw instead of drawer

BookASlot · 11/05/2024 06:57

You are opening the floodgates to pedants like me…. And of course YANBU.

Unexpecteddrivinginstructor · 11/05/2024 06:59

TheExclusiveSandwich · 11/05/2024 06:45

Lol yes! Parking probs AND feelings

Or feelings and parking problems if we are being pedantic.

MyKidsAreTooNoisy · 11/05/2024 07:00

You care a lot for someone who doesn’t care.

BigButtons · 11/05/2024 07:03

TheExclusiveSandwich · 11/05/2024 06:45

Lol yes! Parking probs AND feelings

😆

TubeScreamer · 11/05/2024 09:05

Surely it depends on context?

I write the word councillor many times each day (working in local government) but rarely have need to use counsellor.

bridgetreilly · 11/05/2024 09:20

eurochick · 11/05/2024 05:39

Well it depends. Both can be right. They are different roles.

Councillor = member of a council
Counsellor = someone who counsels

Unless it’s the Privy Council, in which case they are Privy Counsellors.

SpeakinginTongues · 11/05/2024 09:21

TheExclusiveSandwich · 11/05/2024 06:45

Lol yes! Parking probs AND feelings

My counsellor used to be a councillor, come to think of it.

Shodan · 11/05/2024 09:25

bridgetreilly · 11/05/2024 09:20

Unless it’s the Privy Council, in which case they are Privy Counsellors.

Well that's just contrary.

Maybe we should just combine the two, as a catch-all solution:

Counsillors or

Councellors.

(and while we're at it, make it 'discreete')

ThinWomansBrain · 11/05/2024 09:25

For someone that's being a pedant, I'm surprised that you're not aware of the fact that a full stop should be used at the end of a sentence.

ilovesooty · 11/05/2024 09:25

I once had someone contact me through my website to complain about the refuse collection. He was very put out when I explained that I had no capacity to address his concerns.

WelshNerd · 11/05/2024 09:25

I'm a councillor who was introduced to a school counsellor by the headteacher. That led to some mild confusion and British awkwardness.

BingoMarieHeeler · 11/05/2024 09:27

Well, it is if it’s a councillor.

A councillor is a councillor and a counsellor is a counsellor.

What it’s not, is counsillor.

ClairemacL · 11/05/2024 09:32

So this mistake happened in relation to a safeguarding report at my employer once.

Major confusion over whether the professional who acted inappropriately was a “local counsellor” or a “local councillor”! Vastly different implications!

WhatThenEh · 11/05/2024 09:56

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qwertyqwertyqwertyqwerty · 11/05/2024 10:00

ThinWomansBrain · 11/05/2024 09:25

For someone that's being a pedant, I'm surprised that you're not aware of the fact that a full stop should be used at the end of a sentence.

Oh pedants only care about other people's mistakes!

JanglyBeads · 11/05/2024 10:04

Presumably the OP was referring to its use on here, which is much more likely to refer to therapists than those who sit on local governing bodies.
(Depending on which boards you hang out on, I guess.)