I have been in contact with a man via on line dating for the past few weeks. The distance doesn't bother me... it's a couple of hours away... and perhaps would actually suit me ultimately but we get on via text... chatting, shared interests etc.
However he plays sport at a very busy level . Think a few different teams, training and coaching. Frankly I don't understand what he was doing on a dating site in the first place.
We stopped contact for a while as I kept asking him if he wanted to cancel our previous date.
A mixture of avoidance, paranoia, trust issues etc.
He got pissed off with me and said enough. He had a point in fairness. I was a pain in the arse. I would have done the same. Wine didn't help 🙈
So we're back n contact for the last fortnight, chatting every day etc but no suggestion of a date.
Again this weekend he is busy with games, training and coaching. He is late forties. As am I .
He hasn't suggested meeting and not have I.
I need help with a text to suggest we park this possibly until things settle or even generally.
I was thinking of saying ... considering your level of busyness and commitments, I'm wondering should we just park this if: when things settle down.
Wha do you suggest ? Thanks for reading .😊