Husband away with his friends in America - when we FaceTimed yesterday he looked rough so I asked him if he was ok, he said yes, I said you sure you don’t look good he said no im fine just tired I said you don’t sound great either he said no I’m fine. Carried on the conversation and he said he felt tired last night so came home early and left his friends out. Then called 4 hours later saying sorry I should have told you I passed out in a bar last night, don’t remember anything but a guy and his friend took him outside and he felt weird so went home ( only had a pint). His friends stayed out and didn’t check to see if he was ok which I find a bit weird. I said you feeling ok now he said yes I feel fine.
My issue is the lying he said he didn’t want to worry me. The last trip he went on he lied about flying business class and lied about how much it cost, how long they were going for and we had huge arguments and he said he will never lie to me again and was only doing it to protect me. AIBU to think hes lying and what else is he lying about or am
i over reacting which is what he’ll probably say. And sorry for the long thread 🙈