I had a meeting yesterday with my manager regarding my role and how I can advance. This is something I'm interested in and I know there is a position coming up soon that I can apply for and I'm interested in and I think I would be good at.
The meeting was very positive and much better than I had anticipated and I left it feeling positive. My husband asked me how it had gone and basically said don't let it get to your head they're never going to say you are rubbish. They're probably telling everyone else who is showing interest in the role the same thing. He interviews people as part of his role.
I know it sounds ridiculous here but I'm very upset with his comment. I understand to a degree were he is coming from as in don't just sit back now and think you have it in the bag but I also think is comment is very unsupportive.