My dog needs to go to the vet she’s showing signs of being in pain as she has been eating less, licking her paws excessively and making swallowing and gulping sounds all the time. I can’t take her and I have family nearby who can’t commit to taking her any time soon but they have in the past when they were able. I don’t have friends in real life to ask as I only socialise online or with my neighbours but am not close enough to them to ask.
My ex boyfriend who I don’t see would do it for me as they love my dog very much but when I have asked him in the past he has sort of tried to use it as an opportunity to get back with me but on that occasion a family member told me they could take her after all. I don’t know how to ask him when he wants to get back together or how I would manage it as he lives several hours away and would probably want to sleep over. I don’t have feelings for him any more but he is very pushy.