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To think enough is enough with the neighbour?

34 replies

SpeedbirdSquawker · 06/05/2024 17:32

I have lived in my house now for coming up to three years. The neighbours dog has always barked from when I moved in and the neighbour did little stop it. After 18 months, I posted a polite note after the dog had been barking for 5 hours while she was out.

It quietened down but not for long and after they got a new puppy which caused even more noise,some more polite notes and me going round to speak nicely to them, I wrote to the council.

The noise quietened for some time and although is still better than it was, at weekend I often have to listen to the dogs barking or howling for lengths at a time. She has to go out, I understand that, but yesterday it was an hour, and this afternoon after prolonged barking, I banged on the wall and the neighbour was actually in the house (just upstairs probably and the dog has separation anxiety).

WIBU to go back to the council? I'm tired of having my reading time or tv time or general relaxation time interserped by barking or howling and even though its not as bad as it was, should I be hearing dogs barking or howling several times a day? I just hate confrontation and as our back gardens are tiny, I'd rather have good neighbourly relations when we're all outside in summer.

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Mabelface · 07/05/2024 18:05

I got to the point where I'd shout shut your bloody dog up when the symphony of yapping started. Did it every time. It's been quieter for a while.

Stayeduptoolateagain · 07/05/2024 18:26

Op I feel really sorry for you. I've only just escaped noisy, inconsiderate, weed smoking neighbours (dogs barking, loud music, doors slamming, etc). It drove me absolutely potty and made me incredibly anxious all the time. The weed smell was the most annoying thing for me. All I would say is to be careful about making 'official complaints' because if you own your home and decide to sell, you'll need to declare it to your buyer. I bit my tongue, bided my time and made plans to move to a detached house as soon as I could. Good luck 🤞

SpeedbirdSquawker · 07/05/2024 18:50

Thank you for your replies. I'm going back to the council. Hoping they can help. I don't own my house, I rent, so reporting is one less thing to worry about.

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SpeedbirdSquawker · 13/05/2024 21:20

Next doors dog has been barking now for an hour and a half. I'm so stressed. I'm driven to despair. I was really enjoying some relaxing time on the sofa after an horrendous day at work too.

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toomuchfaff · 13/05/2024 21:22

Is neighbour out? If not I'd be knocking on with the "oh I was thinking you'd dropped dead with the dog barking for an hour, thought I'd do a Wellness check! Maybe tell them tomorrow how disruptive it is for you

SpeedbirdSquawker · 13/05/2024 21:49

@toomuchfaff I think the neighbour is out. Dog has been barking for two hours now. Its driving me insane.

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SpeedbirdSquawker · 13/05/2024 21:53

I've had such a terrible day at work and now home to this. The stress is unbelievable.

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toomuchfaff · 14/05/2024 12:32

SpeedbirdSquawker · 13/05/2024 21:53

I've had such a terrible day at work and now home to this. The stress is unbelievable.

I Hooe your evening got better and you manage to improve the situation,

SpeedbirdSquawker · 14/05/2024 19:45

Hello @toomuchfaff I ended up going to bed exasperated at 10.30pm with the dog still barking. I put in a complaint to the council.

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