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To expect the toilet in the park to be open?

120 replies

PassingStranger · 06/05/2024 17:14

Lots of people in the park today as it's a Sunny Bank Holiday.
Picnics, walks, bike rides etc.
Council closed all the toilets how crazy?
Talk about not care about people?

OP posts:
parkrun500club · 07/05/2024 08:01

mitogoshi · 06/05/2024 22:48

There are public toilets at the beach and park near me but they cost 50p, people are constantly moaning about the cost but there's a full time attendant and they are actually decent to use. Perhaps this is the solution, self funding toilets, let people open businesses that are toilets, can have showers as well if applicable.

Yes this works well in some areas (eg last time I was in Scotland there were public loos in the towns I visited, and they cost 20-30p to use at the time).

More public showers would be good too - leisure centres are often a good option for those, but of course they are not in every town and aren't always open.

RobBeckettsGiantTeeth · 07/05/2024 09:23

PassingStranger · 06/05/2024 21:44

Where do they go to the toilet if they've eaten and drank.

I'm not disagreeing with you, it's a problem, I'm just amazed you can't see WHY they don't have them open. Because they cost money to run that the council doesn't have.

The cafe on the other hand makes money, which is why they do have it open.

Simple economics, do you not understand that?

Arlanymor · 07/05/2024 10:17

TheHateIsNotGood · 06/05/2024 23:19

@Arlanymor then if it's just a 'resource' issue then council officers must cut the cloth to suit, downsizing ALL resources including themselves and what they get out of apportioning the 'resources' - so maybe a downsize of extra-statutory minimums of leave, holiday, sickness, maternity pay and lets slash the personnel training budgets, twin-town jollies and pension contributions as a few suggestions to start with.

I'm sure that would keep a couple of public toilets open and possibly put in some disabled access ramps in place and maybe even run a much needed youth club once a week.

Why are you angry at me? I’m not responsible for any of this. Yes councils should cut their cloth according to their finances, I never said otherwise. Go pick on someone else.

Arlanymor · 07/05/2024 10:21

INeedToClingToSomething · 06/05/2024 22:47

You haven’t mentioned your dad in your post. And your post is written pretty fucking flippantly as if not having enough money is a good enough reason to close all the toilets. If you want people to reply to something you haven’t written I suggest including it in your posts. I’m not a mind reader.

I mentioned my dad needing adult sanitary ware! Maybe you skipped a few posts in order to shout at me?

Just because I know the dire state of funding doesn’t mean I am glib or flippant or don’t care. I am stating facts. Also believe it or not, I am not responsible for running this country into the ground and am just as angry as anyone. Because I can express myself without being ranty doesn’t mean I don’t give a shit, but I also live in the real world.

Arlanymor · 07/05/2024 10:23

@INeedToClingToSomething

17:23: My father has a medical need and because of a lack of public toilets has to wear adult sanitary wear in case he is caught short.

But he wouldn’t call any council unreasonable for not being able to afford to keep them open. Unfortunate, but not unreasonable.

You posted at 22:47… and I can’t time travel. Care to apologise?

InATimeOfChimpanzeesIWasAMonkee · 07/05/2024 10:26

Flickersy · 06/05/2024 17:34

People want more toilets, better social care, more regular bin collections, pot holes fixing (and so on and so forth) but don't want to pay increased council tax to fund it.

We're paying the extra 10% and still don't have any public toilets at all, because of the corrupt Tory council who made such ridiculous financial decisions that the council went bankrupt.

CelesteCunningham · 07/05/2024 10:30

YANBU at all. I was out with young DC yesterday and despite planning in toilet visits, naturally the 3yo needed the loo in the playground despite having been brought in the cafe half an hour before. I was so glad to find the ones in the park open, I don't think she would have made it to the nearest business and was debating whether to try or bring her for a bush wee.

Loos are essential.

Arlanymor · 07/05/2024 10:36

InATimeOfChimpanzeesIWasAMonkee · 07/05/2024 10:26

We're paying the extra 10% and still don't have any public toilets at all, because of the corrupt Tory council who made such ridiculous financial decisions that the council went bankrupt.

But the extra 10% (22% where my parents live) is just running to stand still. It’s filling a deficit not new funds. It’s horrendous, I don’t disagree, but it’s not new money for new things, it’s to stop a complete collapse.

Arlanymor · 07/05/2024 10:36

PS. @InATimeOfChimpanzeesIWasAMonkee Your username rocks, I can’t stop humming Loser now.

InATimeOfChimpanzeesIWasAMonkee · 07/05/2024 11:42

Arlanymor yes even with the extra and all the cuts it's not touching the sides of the debt. Forces of evil in a bozo nightmare, indeed 😀

Arlanymor · 07/05/2024 12:18

InATimeOfChimpanzeesIWasAMonkee · 07/05/2024 11:42

Arlanymor yes even with the extra and all the cuts it's not touching the sides of the debt. Forces of evil in a bozo nightmare, indeed 😀

Right?! I don’t disagree with you, I didn’t vote these idiots in, either at a local or national level! Makes me sick.

INeedToClingToSomething · 07/05/2024 18:45

Arlanymor · 07/05/2024 10:23

@INeedToClingToSomething

17:23: My father has a medical need and because of a lack of public toilets has to wear adult sanitary wear in case he is caught short.

But he wouldn’t call any council unreasonable for not being able to afford to keep them open. Unfortunate, but not unreasonable.

You posted at 22:47… and I can’t time travel. Care to apologise?

No. You made a later post. I responded to your earlier post. Have you ever used the internet before?

notedbiscuits · 07/05/2024 19:10

Go before you leave.

Most people are only in the park for a couple of hours.

Most kids go through a phase of wanting to use the toilet but when their parent(s) drag them to a toilet, they produce no or little wee. It’s some kind of attention seeking thing.

Most councils, including mine don’t have any public toilets (bar those 30p charging ones) as they were vandalised and used by druggies. Think some of the vandalism is caused by the druggies if they don’t get that ‘hit’ in time.

RobBeckettsGiantTeeth · 07/05/2024 19:22

notedbiscuits · 07/05/2024 19:10

Go before you leave.

Most people are only in the park for a couple of hours.

Most kids go through a phase of wanting to use the toilet but when their parent(s) drag them to a toilet, they produce no or little wee. It’s some kind of attention seeking thing.

Most councils, including mine don’t have any public toilets (bar those 30p charging ones) as they were vandalised and used by druggies. Think some of the vandalism is caused by the druggies if they don’t get that ‘hit’ in time.

It's not only vandalism, it's the cost of keeping them open even when they're not being vandalised. Someone to maintain the plumbing, someone to clean them several times a day, it all adds up. So many councils are bankrupt.

Gemz1010 · 07/05/2024 19:48

RobBeckettsGiantTeeth · 07/05/2024 19:22

It's not only vandalism, it's the cost of keeping them open even when they're not being vandalised. Someone to maintain the plumbing, someone to clean them several times a day, it all adds up. So many councils are bankrupt.

Councils are only bankrupt through bad management, no private company would spend money like councils - need to save money, where to cut:

Social services - cut to apply pressure on government for more funding

Changing road layouts in town and city centres - spend money on that as no one is going suggest extra funding for that

RobBeckettsGiantTeeth · 07/05/2024 19:50

Gemz1010 · 07/05/2024 19:48

Councils are only bankrupt through bad management, no private company would spend money like councils - need to save money, where to cut:

Social services - cut to apply pressure on government for more funding

Changing road layouts in town and city centres - spend money on that as no one is going suggest extra funding for that

Your post makes no sense linguistically and also bears no relation to the subject of the thread.

SpringerFall · 07/05/2024 19:54

Arlanymor · 06/05/2024 17:23

But it’s not a question of being reasonable or unreasonable is it? If the money isn’t there it isn’t there.

My father has a medical need and because of a lack of public toilets has to wear adult sanitary wear in case he is caught short.

But he wouldn’t call any council unreasonable for not being able to afford to keep them open. Unfortunate, but not unreasonable.

Yes I agree with this, I need the toilet about 10-15 or so times a day I am thankful there are toilets around but they are a privilege not a right

JenniferBooth · 07/05/2024 20:08

notedbiscuits · 07/05/2024 19:10

Go before you leave.

Most people are only in the park for a couple of hours.

Most kids go through a phase of wanting to use the toilet but when their parent(s) drag them to a toilet, they produce no or little wee. It’s some kind of attention seeking thing.

Most councils, including mine don’t have any public toilets (bar those 30p charging ones) as they were vandalised and used by druggies. Think some of the vandalism is caused by the druggies if they don’t get that ‘hit’ in time.

Go before i leave? A. I have IBS so a go a few times a day some days B. dont know when its going to happen as that is the nature of this affliction and C. cant shit to a timetable!!!

soupfiend · 07/05/2024 20:47

Gemz1010 · 07/05/2024 19:48

Councils are only bankrupt through bad management, no private company would spend money like councils - need to save money, where to cut:

Social services - cut to apply pressure on government for more funding

Changing road layouts in town and city centres - spend money on that as no one is going suggest extra funding for that

No private company has to provide statutory services which take money out of the council and dont bring anything in, you know those boring old inconvenient children on child protection plans, children needing foster homes, legal proceedings costing hundreds of thousands of pounds, SEN provision, elderly care and adult services, the list is endless

NewName24 · 07/05/2024 22:11

Councils are only bankrupt through bad management

So, nothing to do with the fact that the Government has cut over a billion pounds from my Council's budget since 2010 ? Hmm

According to the Local Government Association, by the 2024-25 financial year councils will have seen a 27% fall in spending poweron local services since 2010.

Whilst serving increasing population, and, as @soupfiend has said, still having to provide statutory services.

wombat15 · 08/05/2024 00:10

SpringerFall · 07/05/2024 19:54

Yes I agree with this, I need the toilet about 10-15 or so times a day I am thankful there are toilets around but they are a privilege not a right

Being able to use a toilet isn't a priviledge. It is required so that people don't urinate and defecate in the street which could lead to deadly disease. The only reason councils get away with not providing them is because cafes and some shops provide them.

wombat15 · 08/05/2024 00:13

RobBeckettsGiantTeeth · 07/05/2024 19:22

It's not only vandalism, it's the cost of keeping them open even when they're not being vandalised. Someone to maintain the plumbing, someone to clean them several times a day, it all adds up. So many councils are bankrupt.

They didn't provide them even when they had the money. Vandalism is a problem but they can get around that by charging a small fee to use them.

caringcarer · 08/05/2024 00:37

Public toilets should be a priority. Councils waste ridiculous amounts of money on stupid solar powered signs that light up signs that say how many cyclists have used a road each day. Who the fuck cares? Those who cycle will still do so without these stupid costly light up signs. They are not a necessity but toilets are.

Frazzledfrump432 · 08/05/2024 00:44

Crikey. I think people are far too forgiving on here. Of course being able to have a pee in a public space like a park is a basic human right.

And many people do “go” before they leave the house but have birth injuries or illnesses which means they need to go again pretty quickly. As do young kids. Not everyone is the same.

I know many councils are strapped for cash or bankrupt as austerity measures have been applied unevenly but there is also a great deal of misogyny embedded in council decision-making which results in issues affecting women and children being ranked at the bottom of the priority list.

notedbiscuits · 08/05/2024 06:19

If you needed some work doing to your home, you get a few quotes. Same with when. Car/home/travel/other insurances.

Not with some councils. They pay £m for contractors to do a mirage of work. Then wonder why some tasks are shoddy. It’s a bit like asking a driveway specialist to do tree surgeon work.

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