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Why are there so many overweight and obese British women?

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EvaHara · 06/05/2024 16:48

Genuine post and I promise I am not a weight troll. Recently I was on a cruise and couldn't help but notice that many other British women onboard - especially younger women - were considerably overweight or obese. Some were in fact huge and easily as big as some women I saw in the US when there a few years ago.

What has caused this rise in overweight people, particularly younger women? I don't remember there being this many overweight/obese people even 10 years ago.

I am not judging, just curious.

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louderthan · 06/05/2024 22:02

I know exactly why I'm overweight. I drink too much, which is extra unnecessary calories and when I've had a few glasses of wine I get the munchies bad and hoover up whatever high fat, high salt, high sugar food I have in the house.
I'm trying to cut down on drinking.

Theoutdoorsismedicine · 06/05/2024 22:03

OneTC · 06/05/2024 16:55

It is not the governments fault that people are fat

This! 👏

always someone’s fault
no time to cook
no time to exercise
body positivity - seems like obesity is now the accepted norm

why can’t people take responsibility of their own health and stop the excuses.

Hartley99 · 06/05/2024 22:04

It’s depressing as hell. When you look at old photos, the lack of obese people is really striking. It used to be one of the few ways we could feel superior to Americans! Not any more. We’re now the Americans of Europe.

I’m afraid it’s a pet hate of mine. When I see fat people, I assume they’re either ignorant or greedy (or both). I know that isn’t always fair. In some cases, it really is beyond their control. I don’t buy the poverty argument though. Excusing someone’s obesity on the grounds of poverty seems almost offensive. You don’t need wealth to buy wholemeal bread, baked beans or bags of carrots. Those things cost less than Dunkin donuts and KFC, that’s for sure. I know it’s a cliche, but no British soldier left a Japanese POW camp weighing 20 stone.

Mrstaytos · 06/05/2024 22:05

Society becoming so accepting of obesity is doing no one any favours.

LLMn · 06/05/2024 22:05

Love responses about 'not cooking from fresh ingredients'. As if 'fresh' ingredients are not pumped full of hormones (including wild-caught fish full of contraceptive pills), pesticides and the rest. We are all screwed, ladies and gentlemen, all of us. Even the so-called organic farming, yeah, right, downstream of non-organic farming, with the same rain, water, etc. Personally I think it is the quantities consumed (90%) and sedentary lifestyle. There was an excellent article in the paper (don't remember which) where an experiment was described, something like eating 1970s portions. They were tiny compared to ours these days. Yes, and poverty. When you don't have the money to spend of interesting stuff, the most efficient way to get a hit from a happy 'high' is a portion of chips or a cake or biscuits or whatever is your favourite food.

WmFnKdSg1234 · 06/05/2024 22:06

I think that cruises may be skewed in its representation of the number overweight people within the population.

I was on a cruise last November and came to similar conclusions, not just for women, but for both sexes.

I was told the reason for this may be is that larger/wider people may struggle with economy airplane seats, so many heavier people therefore choose to cruise to avoid difficulties/embarrassment on flights.

I have worked in the NHS for 11years, I thought that I had seen everything regarding extremely heavy people (requiring 6 plus people for maunual handling), but my time on a cruise certainly surprised me.

LLMn · 06/05/2024 22:07

Love responses about 'not cooking from fresh ingredients'. As if 'fresh' ingredients are not pumped full of hormones (including wild-caught fish full of contraceptive pills), pesticides and the rest. We are all screwed, ladies and gentlemen, all of us. Even the so-called organic farming, yeah, right, downstream of non-organic farming, with the same rain, water, etc. Personally I think it is the quantities consumed (90%) and sedentary lifestyle. There was an excellent article in the paper (don't remember which) where an experiment was described, something like eating 1970s portions. They were tiny compared to ours these days. Yes, and poverty. When you don't have the money to spend of interesting stuff, the most efficient way to get a hit from a happy 'high' is a portion of chips or a cake or biscuits or whatever is your favourite food.

Bikesandbees · 06/05/2024 22:07

Car culture. The British love driving and lots of people never walk or cycle anywhere anymore. Then they don’t have time/money to go to the gym instead. Same problem in the US. Indoor lifestyle as well, because many of us seem to think we’re going to melt if we go outside in a slight drizzle.

Also, cruises are quite sedentary holidays. Sedentary people tend to choose sedentary holidays.

notwavingbutdrowning1 · 06/05/2024 22:09

Unicornhunter2 · 06/05/2024 21:50

Im from the UK but live in Switzerland and you just can't buy all that processed convenience food , snacks etc here. The selection is so small, you can buy a pizza but not much else. There is maybe half an aisle dedicated to junk food in the supermarket (crisps, chocolate). You really do have to make everything from scratch. Every time i come back to the UK i put on weight because im eating all the stuff i miss.

The extent of UPF in the UK has got ridiculous. It’s incredible that supermarkets have a whole aisle for ‘Sharing Crisps’.

TempestTost · 06/05/2024 22:09

GreyCarpet · 06/05/2024 21:48

Any explanation - like metabolism - that is something that also existed 60 years ago, is inadequate (unless you are claiming that metabolism has changed for some reason, which is a possible argument to make.)

Shit diets have given rise to metabolic disorders. Once someone is very overweight, it becomes harder to lose weight.

Yes, so you are suggesting the shit diets are the underlying problem.

I agree that once you are overweight, losing and maintaining a healthy weight is far more difficult. But the underlying issue would be the shit diet. (I suspect there are other things too, like snacking, and general decline in daily activity.)

YesIDidMeanToBeRudeFucko · 06/05/2024 22:10

Hartley99 · 06/05/2024 22:04

It’s depressing as hell. When you look at old photos, the lack of obese people is really striking. It used to be one of the few ways we could feel superior to Americans! Not any more. We’re now the Americans of Europe.

I’m afraid it’s a pet hate of mine. When I see fat people, I assume they’re either ignorant or greedy (or both). I know that isn’t always fair. In some cases, it really is beyond their control. I don’t buy the poverty argument though. Excusing someone’s obesity on the grounds of poverty seems almost offensive. You don’t need wealth to buy wholemeal bread, baked beans or bags of carrots. Those things cost less than Dunkin donuts and KFC, that’s for sure. I know it’s a cliche, but no British soldier left a Japanese POW camp weighing 20 stone.

A lot of British soldiers never left Japanese POW camps. Not sure what Japanese POW camps have to do with fat women on cruise ships though

Grammarnut · 06/05/2024 22:11

SiriAlexa · 06/05/2024 16:52

It must be diet related- processed food becoming normalised rather than cooking from scratch and plenty of vegetables with meals. It is the same in my city, more than half the women seem to be obese.

I was also shocked lately when I visited a Sainsbury’s in a more run down part of my city- junk food was mixed into every aisle and it seemed like sweets and crisps were everywhere. In the Sainsbury’s across the city which is a wealthier area, the junk food has its own dedicated area. It really made me angry as obviously they are pushing more unhealthy food in a less affluent area.

Shops in poorer areas do this, and charge higher prices, too. If pressed, they say the junk food is what the market wants. One problem is that poor people are less likely to know how to cook from scratch (blame Thatcher for that, who decided domestic science was useless and children should be taught how to market yoghurt pots instead - and the intention of this was to boost the processed food market). The other problem that people in poorer areas have is less time to cook from scratch, even if they know how. Commercial though they are I sometimes think Weight Watchers and Slimming World actually help here, by providing recipes for fairly simple from scratch meals, their clients usually being from the lower economic groups (i.e. not those who can do expensive fad diets or packaged diets because of the cost).

Isitautumnyet23 · 06/05/2024 22:12

TempestTost · 06/05/2024 22:01

I think this is a much bigger deal than people realize.

And we are now raising our kids to snack constantly. So they are starting out from a disadvantage, and the problem is, once a person is obese, it is so much harder to stay at a healthy weight than if you had never been obese. For many it will require an iron will.

Our culture used to frown on snacking, and things like eating in public places, or on your couch, were frowned upon. None of those rules apply now, so people eat everywhere, all the time.

This is so true - I hate snacking in between meals as dont enjoy my meals the same. I eat 3 proper meals a day (by no means all home cooked). Ive noticed how people cant seem to function without snacks- getting on a train, short flight, cinema (im not just talking about popcorn), literally any occasion needs snacks. I love that my office has no snacks and my colleagues generally are pretty healthy so its a good environment to work in. We do occasional cakes/biscuits for birthdays and special occasions but thats it. Also, not near any shops so everyone brings their own lunch from home.

Fundays12 · 06/05/2024 22:12

Body positivity movement which is fabulous in theory but when it's been used to promote obesity as a healthy normal life choice is dangerous

Big portion sizes

Sedentary lifestyles the amount of people who literally never walk or would not dream of walking there kids to school half a mile along the road shocks me.

Binge drinking

Social media when people can use filters to take pounds of themselves and get loads of compliments it gives a false representation.

Junk food

Not cooking from scratch.

Takeaways

It's a huge variety of factors.

DuckyShincracker · 06/05/2024 22:13

Wine,crips and the menopause!

Hartley99 · 06/05/2024 22:14

Ripplestrain · 06/05/2024 22:00

I might get flamed here, but I think nowadays we've normalised obesity....sizes have become distorted.

I have an obese sibling, they're only in their late 20s/early 30s, and they've got multiple health conditions including asthma, high blood pressure, issues with knees and thighs etc. Most of my other family members are obese too. It's terrifying to see, because I know the health impacts that being obese can have.

What I have noticed is that they can't really cook anymore because mainly of pre-existing health conditions, caring commitments, sedentary lifestyle etc...This means a reliance on take out food, snacking, getting taxis everywhere.

Ultra-processed food creates cravings, which means that they keep you hungry, and I think that's what causing this epidemic. When cooking from scratch, I've had to because of food intolerances making me poorly but I've noticed it stops these cravings of wanting to eat all the time. It's also given me more energy to do walking and activities, since cutting down on takeaways, sweets, and snacking.

I agree that we’ve normalised obesity. I can think of several young women who are grossly overweight, with bellies literally hanging over their trousers, who think they’re average. I once heard a doctor say that almost everyone, including the health conscious, eat too much.

SocksAndTheCity · 06/05/2024 22:14

Fresh ingredients are also expensive and usually require other ingredients to be able to do anything with them, as well as access to adequate kitchen facilities, equipment and utensils, the money for the gas/electricity to cook plus the time, knowledge and basic skills to make something edible.

Many people don't have some, all or any of these. The judgement and smug sanctimony on this thread is so nauseating it's making me wish I weighed twenty stone just so I could ask exactly what is wrong with that considering I wouldn't give a fuck? I don't give a shit what other people weigh, wear or look like - being a decent human being is what matters.

TempestTost · 06/05/2024 22:14

BeretRaspberry · 06/05/2024 21:53

Shaming people into losing weight does not and has not worked. In fact, it only makes the situation worse. In term of people feeling like shit, possibly turning to food for comfort.

And like I said before the body positivity movement isn’t about just normalising people being greedy or lazy. It’s generally about looking after and caring for your body, regardless of its size. People who don’t feel ashamed of their bodies because of their size are more likely to treat it with kindness and to do things to care for it. Especially those like me where their pursuit of weight loss has made them even fatter than they ever were (and in my case gave me an eating disorder).

It would be nice if this were true, but it's not, or not anymore. The whole thing is now bizarre and toxic, often with claims that saying being obese is unhealthy is "fatphobic" and also untrue. There have been a number of influencers who have died in the last year or so, quite young. And these are not just people who are "normal" fat, many are extremely obese.

AlcoholSwab · 06/05/2024 22:14

Smartphone dating culture explains why so many young women are out of shape.

Most of the men on apps like Tinder get no swipes and can't afford to be fussy.

Flopsy145 · 06/05/2024 22:14

I think it's a combination of money with unhealthy foods generally being more accessible/cheaper, and also an acceptance of obesity. There have been so many influencers promoting the "fat is beautiful" message but fail to mention the raging health concerns that come with that. So if someone is larger and lazy, they jump on board this messaging and don't even try and help themselves.

Rachie1973 · 06/05/2024 22:14

EvaHara · 06/05/2024 16:48

Genuine post and I promise I am not a weight troll. Recently I was on a cruise and couldn't help but notice that many other British women onboard - especially younger women - were considerably overweight or obese. Some were in fact huge and easily as big as some women I saw in the US when there a few years ago.

What has caused this rise in overweight people, particularly younger women? I don't remember there being this many overweight/obese people even 10 years ago.

I am not judging, just curious.

Because chocolate is fabulous and celery is rank.

Godimtiredallthetime · 06/05/2024 22:14

Ultra processed foods. It's that simple. Diet this and diet that. It's all shit. Real. Food and no diets is what is needed. We've all been brain washed and now we diet and fail and diet and fail and the weight goes up and up. I'm one of them. Trying hard to eat normally again after decades of faddy diets. I'm bigger than I've ever been so clearly they don't actually work.

moonlitmaze · 06/05/2024 22:16

Hartley99 · 06/05/2024 22:04

It’s depressing as hell. When you look at old photos, the lack of obese people is really striking. It used to be one of the few ways we could feel superior to Americans! Not any more. We’re now the Americans of Europe.

I’m afraid it’s a pet hate of mine. When I see fat people, I assume they’re either ignorant or greedy (or both). I know that isn’t always fair. In some cases, it really is beyond their control. I don’t buy the poverty argument though. Excusing someone’s obesity on the grounds of poverty seems almost offensive. You don’t need wealth to buy wholemeal bread, baked beans or bags of carrots. Those things cost less than Dunkin donuts and KFC, that’s for sure. I know it’s a cliche, but no British soldier left a Japanese POW camp weighing 20 stone.

A lot left dead though and your post is fucking offensive.

notwavingbutdrowning1 · 06/05/2024 22:18

You don’t need wealth to buy wholemeal bread, baked beans or bags of carrots

No. But you need heat to cook them and many people are choosing between heating and eating. Plus, a diet of wholemeal
bread, beans and carrots is bloody boring and when life is tough people need a little something to make themselves feel better. You should read George Orwell on this. Things haven’t changed.

A couple of years ago I was in my local McColl’s and noticed you could buy two apples for a pound. At the counter they had packs of four apple pies for a pound. Full of sugar, very little apple, but if you’ve got hungry kids the pies would fill them up more.

Hartley99 · 06/05/2024 22:18

Mctm · 06/05/2024 21:43

The wave of body positivity and a culture of acceptance of being overweight. We are also too afraid to offend. Other countries look very poorly at overweight people but in the UK we want to celebrate it.

And also the victim mentality. I’m sure lots of people consider themselves victims even while consuming a tray of donuts (“it isn’t my fault, it’s poverty and lack of opportunity and, er, the Tories…now where’s my Ben and Jerry’s ice cream?”).

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