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Work today to avoid stress tonorrow?

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Member869894 · 06/05/2024 14:52

More a WWYD really. I have a stressful job and really should work today to get ahead of the email hell tomorrow but don't want to gi w up my bank holiday Monday afternoon. Shall i work today and be less stressed tomorrow or not work today and be really stressed tomorrow?

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CharlieDickens · 06/05/2024 14:54

I did 3 hours this morning. Now I'm relaxing. I think you should do the same. You know it will make the rest of the week easier.

ILikePistachios · 06/05/2024 14:55

I'd go with work today however in my experience that still won't make tomorrow any less stressful because 9/10 times some new nonsense pops up to add to the mayhem

Arlanymor · 06/05/2024 14:55

I'm going to do a bit this afternoon for the same reason as work is manic at the moment. But I am going to set myself limits - start at 5pm, end by 8:30pm. Oh and I'm going to get a takeaway for dinner as a reward for putting in the extra!

NigelHarmansNewWife · 06/05/2024 14:56

Do a bit and put stuff in your Outbox but don't connect to send and definitely don't show as available in Teams!

Catza · 06/05/2024 15:09

I am not going to do anything today. It's my day off and I am not paid for logging in. If I wanted to work, I had an option to work and be paid.
My team knows that I only check my emails twice a day, that way I can get on with things and not be bothered with something that is not urgent (and 90% of all emails I get are sent to the whole team and isn't something I need to action).
I have a couple of large reports to write but again, this is going to be done in the time which I already allocated across the week. If I chose to do it today, this time is only going to be taken up with other tasks so it's not like I am saving myself any more time there.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 06/05/2024 15:11

Catza · 06/05/2024 15:09

I am not going to do anything today. It's my day off and I am not paid for logging in. If I wanted to work, I had an option to work and be paid.
My team knows that I only check my emails twice a day, that way I can get on with things and not be bothered with something that is not urgent (and 90% of all emails I get are sent to the whole team and isn't something I need to action).
I have a couple of large reports to write but again, this is going to be done in the time which I already allocated across the week. If I chose to do it today, this time is only going to be taken up with other tasks so it's not like I am saving myself any more time there.

This.

LlynTegid · 06/05/2024 15:12

I'd spend part of this afternoon looking for alternative job options. The options you have should not come to the ones you have.

NotTerfNorCis · 06/05/2024 15:12

I did some work today. It depends how much you need a break though. Don't feel forced to work holidays, it sets a bad precedent.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 06/05/2024 15:16

Everybody I know at work who insists upon checking their emails in the evening and weekends just ends up doing hours of work for free. And it sets a precedent where 'Laura does extra time/doesn't leave emails until the last minute working hours, you know'. Fuck that.

Stuff to do just expands to fill the time you give it - and everything that's dealt with unpaid is one more thing that is assumed to not be a problem by management because it's been done, hasn't it?

Member869894 · 06/05/2024 15:19

Thanks all (opens laptop with a sigh...)

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Arlanymor · 06/05/2024 15:19

I should have added - my work is very flexible. As long as my work gets done, it doesn't matter when I do it. Also I work with volunteer community groups and lots of them email in the evenings when they have finished their own jobs. It's not always a matter of not being able to fit in all of your work, it just means that work doesn't necessarily neatly fit into the 9-5. So catching up on emails tonight means I can finish early during the week if I wish. I certainly don't believe in overworking or anything like that. I just wanted to make that clear.

LilyofftheValley · 06/05/2024 15:48

I did a couple of hours to get ahead of a short and busy week. Depends on seniority as I get paid a higher salary to get things done (and I want to make life a bit easier this week). I wouldn't expect my junior staff to log on today.

QueSyrahSyrah · 06/05/2024 15:56

I'm going into my last 2 weeks until Maternity leave and have stacks to get through if I don't want to spend my last couple of days in a manic tizz, so I'm typing this from my desk in the office. I'm just about to leave after 2 hours of doing end of month reports so they're off tomorrow's list.

I therefore vote for work a bit today, if it's going to make you less stressed tomorrow.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 06/05/2024 18:01

I did a bit today. Partly because I’ve been off sick some of last week though

DramaAlpaca · 06/05/2024 18:08

I spent years doing that, OP. No more. The stress and lack of recognition for my above and beyond efforts became too much, so I got out. I have a much better work life balance in the job I moved to.

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