So I am the ‘organiser’ in my group of friends but I have noticed that over the past few years if I don’t organise something then we don’t get together. I never seem to get asked out to anything or to meet up. I get that people have busy lives and family commitments but now I am starting to get paranoid that it’s me and they don’t actually want to be in my company? I find myself alone on weekends now as DH has a hobby he does on sundays (which he loves and I would never want him to stop - I don’t want to do it with him) and DC have their own friends/activities. I’m quite a shy person and I find it hard to talk to new people so not sure how to go about making new friends?
I am perfectly happy in my own company but I do worry that maybe i’m not a ‘nice’ person and that is why my friends don’t make an effort? Or am I just overthinking it and everyone has their own busy lives?