Toxic husband says he is only on Tinder to chat

[Babibel]

I confronted him and he said he would delete it, he never met someone (yet??). Then he actually found a way to hide the apps in his phone. Yes he also has Badoo.
He said it’s à back up because we had so many fights. He is toxic and I am trying my best to leave with our child as we currently live in his country.

Ok then

So what are you going to do about it?

If he just wanted to chat he’d be on Reddit. Or Mumsnet.

Is there an AIBU? You most likely aren’t but your OP is lacking in words

That's nice. Maybe you should do the same?

Good to know. What's your question?

...sexy chat.

Do you believe that??

If those are the types of friends he wants to make, then let him make them as a
single man. If it goes against your boundaries then it doesn't matter his excuse, you're entitled to enforce those boundaries.

I edited my post.

He is very direct to them like ‘your turn me on’

You already know the answer to your question

The next move is yours

Of course he’s not on Tinder for a nice little chat. Stop fooling yourself that he’s anything but an absolute waste of space and get out of there. Try to test the quality of men before you decide to have children with them in future.

He means he's got women massaging his ego! A chat... ! Mmmm I'd like to sew my husband try that one!

You know the relationship is over. You are trying to move out; he’s chatting to girls on dating apps.

The last part of the puzzle is to be honest with yourselves.

What can you do about it? Nothing. He will be more secretive and lie. Switch off, focus your effort on leaving him.

He wasn’t that crap when we met and dated for 4 yrs

Better book your flight home. His not worth it

We have a child together. I have been trying to move back home for several years. It might finally happen

hope you manage to leave him and return home.

where are you currently?

Scandinavia. It’s complicated to leave without him. He can easily block me. I have proof of abuse but still.

Is there an equivalent of Women’s Aid who can support you?
If he’s abusive the most dangerous time is if he knows that you’re going so don’t leave any clues that you’re planning it.