Omg I’m fooking livid. My DH and DS have gone camping today and as my DH was coupling up the trailer to the car our next door neighbour from hell has opened his front door and shouted can you tell that F’ing kid of yours to stop running up and down the F’ing stairs. DH didn’t even get the chance to reply to him as the coward said what he had to say then slammed the door and scurried off back inside. Now just for a bit of contex. Our DS who’s 13 is autistic and he has sensory difficulties and he seeks sensory input and one the ways in which he does this is through pressure in his feet so yes sometimes he does run up and down the stairs quickly as he likes the feeling of it in his feet. I tell him to try and do it a bit quieter so not to disturb the neighbours (despite me despising them!) but it goes over DS’s head. I remind my to walk not run but our stairs run parallel (terraced housing) so I also hear his 3 kids running up and down but i don’t get annoyed as that’s typical every day noise in my opinion.
Anyway the reason I’m so annoyed with this is because I can’t believe the audacity of this person. For all of what we have put up with off him and his family the last three years I think he had balls to dare have a go about our DS. They have parties and large gatherings that are loud and go on until the early hours of the morning. They smoke weed inside of their house which in turn stinks out our house causing issues with my chest and my DS as he can’t tolerate the stench. They have dogs that they never walk and just throw outside to bark endlessly. Their son plays football for what feels like every minute of every day out front and I’ve had to put up with my front windows/door and car being hit repeatedly. He also kicks the ball repeatedly at his own front (upper) windows really hard yet the dad doesn’t get annoyed by this and doesn’t tell him to stop. They have bonfires all throughout the summer at odd times meaning when it’s boiling I have to shut my windows and I can’t have washing out on the line as our clothes end up stinking.
In general the parents are loud they cannot talk only shout and because evidently they are the popular family on our estate they constantly have guests round being loud blocking my driveway with their cars shouting swearing etc. The mum is bad but the dad is far worse he’s got a disgusting mouth on him he’s always spitting out front walking round with his top off like he’s an Adonis and in general they’re just not nice people. Although the kids can be annoying at times I actually feel sorry for them with parents like this. Anyway I hope he’s proud of himself as my DS has gone away this morning upset because this moron has had a go at him.
I’m so tempted to spend the weekend running up and down the stairs as hard and as fast as I can but then I don’t usually behave this way eg act out in retaliation. It’s bloody tempting though lol.