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Ex boyfriend's jumper

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sunshinecg · 03/05/2024 14:55

I have been with my husband for nearly 8 years, we have two wonderful children together but we got into a little argument as I have a ex boyfriends hoodie which I wear every so often and he thinks it's a but strange.
For clarification I had a boyfriend in between said ex and husband and I have absolutely zero feelings for ex I just love the hopdie as it's oversized and extremely comfortable.
AITA for continuing to wear said hoodie?

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sunshinecg · 04/05/2024 05:59

Thanks everyone.
My husband wasn't upset over it I should have said more a discussion than little argument and then that he found it a bit odd / strange but it was more me overthinking and wondering what other people though and wondering whether I was in the wrong - which I dont personally think I was but I do think it's time to retire the hoodie and steal one of his!
Just to clarify I have no long lost feelings for my ex I just happen to like the hoodie 😅
And for those who have said about making him feel uncomfortable because I wear it his ex was a tattoo artist and he's covered in tattoos from her and that doesn't make me feel uncomfortable nor does me wearing ex's hoodie make him feel uncomfortable he just said it was a bit strange!

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MississippiAF · 04/05/2024 06:02

his ex was a tattoo artist and he's covered in tattoos from her and that doesn't make me feel uncomfortable

thats not the same.

OpenWife · 28/06/2024 17:30

I suppose the question is why are you really still hanging on to it?
He knows exes are a threat. I have stayed over with my ex a few times since being married but would never keep anything related to him in the house because its a red light. If you're being a good girl it's a shame to arouse his suspicion.

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