Being on benefits was a safety net for me when I had to be a SAHM for my disabled son. There’s no other way I would have survived.
When on benefits there are restrictions on how much you work without losing money, which in theory is as it should be, but in reality traps people in a situation where they can’t slowly increase their hours, working more hours means you end up on less money.
For example carers allowance - you can earn up to £151 a week from work (CA is £81.90 per week), if you go over this threshold at all, even my 50p, you do not qualify to claim. So there’s no phasing out of CA to return to work, but if you’re caring for someone for over 35 hours a week it’s unlikely that you could just come off it and work the 28 additional hours (assuming minimum wage) in a month to gain that back.
I was on legacy CTC, and that was similar. When I returned to work if I went over 16 hours I was suddenly in a situation where I had higher fuel costs, higher care costs for my son (to take into account the level of flexibility he needed), no free prescriptions, no free school meals for my younger dc, and no possible way to work the hours I’d need to to make up for the shortfall.
I realise that my situation - disabled child - means some MNers will think my case acceptable, but the lack of phasing back into the workplace is a restriction for everyone.
There’s also the stress at relying on benefits. Particularly when you work as well. Have you all read about the woman who went over the threshold whilst claiming CA? She went under the threshold some months, and some months went over by 50p to £3. DWP sat on it for 3 years then demanded it all back. Over £11,000.
If the government want people back to work they need to overhaul things to allow people to get back to work with a level of flexibility. IME most people want to work, but the fear of losing money when things are already tight traps you.
I’ve come off benefits now, it’s a struggle sometimes, but I know I’m free to earn more without the fear that I’m going to lose more than I earn. Being on benefits was necessary, but it was humiliating relying on gov orgs that treat you like you’re dishonest and putting up with the stigma and opinions of real life people who believe the propaganda that we're all benefits scum and scroungers. It gets a bit much sometimes.