The title sounds bonkers and says it all really. My friend is going through a bad time and to be honest has abandonment issues from people including close friends walking out on her. She’s so afraid of losing people that she develops obsessions to people she really cares about and wants to impress. she’s currently obsessed with this one friend who lives in a different country and wants to be closer to her (she told me all that) as she feels she’s that type of persons she’s always wanted to be in her life but there’s one problem. Another girl who’s close to this friend threatens that bond. My friend feels this other girl has it too easy and doesn’t do things right (my friend and those two girls have social media presence, my friend having the lowest). My friend says this girl doesn’t discipline her kids right, doesn’t do herself up properly as she’s not naturally pretty etc and cries about her kids not sleeping and her husband working away too much etc. my friend is so angry and fed up of this girl taking the attention of her friend away from her and giving it to this “unworthy” girl that if things don’t start going her way she’s going to set out to ruin this girls life for messing with hers. I know wtf! her plan is to make a fake social media account to literally terrorise and troll this girl about everything she doesn’t like about her including her weight, her parenting style, what she should be doing and if she keeps it up she will lose everything etc with comments like “you need to lose a few stone and start wearing a push up bra and shapewar as your figure is disgusting, how could your husband sleep with you and not throw up?” “If I were you I’d make myself sick” “you should be wearing makeup everytime you come on camera as you aren’t naturally pretty with a wide face that needs contouring the fuck until you lose weight, I wouldn’t care if your kids need anything they can fucking wait until you’re ready” “your husband is cheating on you and will leave you unless you sort your life out” “I would just leave your kids to cry to sleep, you are letting them rule you, better still drug them with sleeping pills to get them to sleep”. I know I’m disgusted with what she’s planning on doing and have told her the consequences if she decides to do this but will she listen no. Also the worst thing is she plans to catfish this girls husband to get him to leave her. Wtf. I told her well if your friend finds out it’s you she will definitely want nothing to do with you but of course she insists she’s right. this all is making me sick with worry as an innocent girl is going to get hurt and worst case scenario her life ruined (my friend even is going to report her to the social and spread disgusting lies about her to get her kids taken off). What can I do? I feel sorry for my friend as she’s lost so much in life including her daughter 5 years in June which could be messing with her head. She recently had a son but can’t love him as she was expecting him to be her lost daughter reincarnated. I feel like I’m torn between a rock and a hard place WWYD