I studied languages at university, have lived abroad and also have dual nationality. As a result I speak several languages, but I really don't care if others do or not.
I try to read books in the language I studied in order to maintain it. I told this guy I'm talking to about a book we both liked that I rriecTouch and hold a clip to pin it. and he said 'wow the fact that you can do that is insane'. I'd also gone to this country a few months back and he said he couldn't believe I'd been able to converse over there in that language.
I told him I'm sure he'd be able to if he wanted to but he said it takes too much time to learn another language.
I do drawing as a hobby, they aren't great by any means. I occasionally show close friends to get feedback (this seems to be what people do) and I showed him. He said it was really good and then I asked him if he had any interest in drawing/art. He looked embarrassed and said no, and that he can't really afford hobbies ATM.
I almost said that the vast majority of my hobbies are free, but I thought that may sound patronising.
I actually feel like most people don't really care about daft drawings I do and stuff like that, I appreciate the interest he has taken in the things I do.
I don't really care at all if he doesn't speak x languages or have a range of hobbies, I find him interesting and like him for who he is.
Not sure if he feels a bit inadequate or something? It might put him off?