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Contractor lying to me about price of materials

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Stouffer123 · 01/05/2024 06:41

Is it normal practice for contractors to lie about the price of materials? I’ve got a contractor putting up some fencing for me, it’s costing a large amount in total. The agreement was I would buy the materials and get them delivered to me and then I would ‘own them’. He ordered the materials through his trade account and he gave me the price but when I rang up the merchant to pay, the price was significantly lower (about £300). I queried this with him and he said it was an ‘error’ but when I rang the merchant back they told me it was a trade discount. I wasn’t aware of this so feel a bit silly. I just paid it because I didn’t want to cause a fuss, but am I being unreasonable to feel that he lied to me about the price? Is it normal for contractors to do this or is it normal for them to pass the saving onto you. Just want to know if I’m being taken for a ride.

OP posts:
Wotsitoverthere · 05/05/2024 18:00

When we have paid the bill direct with the merchant and had the materials delivered straight to us we have paid the bill with trade discount. Tradies often do this so the goods don't go through their books so they don't end up paying VAT and it also means they don't have stuff outstanding on their account, so it's a bonus to them. If you were paying the merchant direct, how could you be expected to pay more than the bill??

Humannat · 06/05/2024 15:25

Missamyp · 01/05/2024 07:50

Well cancel the order and go buy your own materials.
The invoice is company property, not yours. The discount is encouragement from the supplier for the trader to buy from them. It's a sale-they sell to him he sells to you. Usually plus mark-up with the discount.
It's none of your business what the prices are.
Do you demand tescos or a cafe sell a bun at the business cost price?

DP has customers like you, usually to be found in the do not call back/ignore folder.

Scamming cunts

Humannat · 06/05/2024 15:28

Lottie2shoes · 01/05/2024 08:45

It is normal. Some do let you use their trader's discounts which is nice of them but they do not have to.
Unless you are paying higher than normal retail price, then it should not really affect you as such.
He has a trader's discount because he is more likely to buy lots of material from them so they give him a discount as an incentive.
He is not required to pass on the discount to you if he does not want.
Edited to add: Of course if you are not happy with this or the prices, you would be allowed to shop around. You can easily cancel the order and shop elsewhere. ( unless of course too much time has lapsed. In that case you will have to go through with it most likely if you did not want to lose out as you may incur charges. )

Edited

Then as a customer why be expected to pay for materials at all, can the tradesman not afford this overheads for his business?

id assume the conversation regarding the customer ordering and getting the best price would include this discount, otherwise matey should be ordering everything he needs for the job and we settle at the end.

Nodealio · 06/05/2024 15:33

It's normal for tradespeople to charge profit and attendance on materials. It covers the time spent measuring for products, ordering products, going into merchants to discuss orders, collecting orders, dealing with merchants for anything faulty ect. If the discount is trade price, it wouldn't have applied to you anyway. For many projects, this is the only way to make the project viable to builders.

caringcarer · 06/05/2024 15:39

Mindymomo · 01/05/2024 06:50

My DH used to let his clients have any discount if they purchased materials direct, but it was entirely down to the retailer what discount they were given.

My bathroom fitter let me have his £600 trade discount he got. As a result I asked him to refit my downstairs cloakroom too.

NellieJean · 06/05/2024 18:28

To be honest good contractors are really hard to find. We have been using the same people, probably 5/6 different trades,for years and years. We get a price for the job and if happy, which we usually are, we agree the job and the timetable. What discount he is getting is his business we only care about total price, timetable and quality. As a consequence we can always get work done and have never had a bad job. I’ve no doubt at all we could get work done more cheaply sometimes.

Nanaof1 · 06/05/2024 20:24

MsSquiz · 01/05/2024 08:10

He is making the money on the discount he gets.

If you had have gone to buy the materials yourself, you wouldn't have received the discount so price to you would be the same.

It's not rocket science

What she is SAYING, and people are not understanding is this:

He told her to buy from this supplier, even though he does not have to pick it up or anything else. So WHY did she need to buy from there and not her choice of material suppliers? Answer: Because he wanted to make money on top of the money he makes for doing the job.

She could have shopped around for the best price but got stuck buying from the place her contractor said. So now, not only does he make labor costs, but also makes money on her purchases. He should have let her buy where SHE wanted to buy because I would bet money that many places were cheaper. The contractor is being sneaky and deceitful.

My DH was a contractor for many years. His clients paid what he paid for materials and delivery. If he got a discount, so did they.

Nanaof1 · 06/05/2024 20:36

WoodBurningStov · 01/05/2024 08:39

Can you cancel the order, or put it on hold and shop around? If your contractor told you that it would be cheaper then I'd expect you to only pay the discounted price.

Contractors will often put a mark up on matériels but you should have shopped around before agreeing to his price

I agree. If told it's cheaper to buy from store "A" by the contractor, then I would expect the bill to be cheaper, not the same as if I went to store "B" or "C".

Some contractors are very, very greedy and it shows.

If he didn't want to give the OP a discount, he should have quoted her a price for materials from the place he buys and let her choose where to buy them. Maybe the contractor's price would have still been cheapest, but maybe not.

OP--I'd call around or go visit some building supply places and get prices on the same quality fencing and see if it is cheaper or more expensive.

Nanaof1 · 06/05/2024 21:07

beanii · 04/05/2024 17:43

Absolutely normal. You've never been self employed have you?

Remember they also have the time ordering, collecting or arranging delivery, fuel cost, insurance etc.

Edited

LOL! Hogwash! Insurance, fuel, measuring, ordering etc, all gets covered by the contractor fee, the difference in labor costs (what he pays versus what he charges) and many other little "ways".

As to your "other post", which was totally clueless. The contractor TOLD her to pay the supplier directly. That way he gets ALL the benefit of what she bought and the discount, but SHE would have been responsible for any problems with the materials.

SMDHATSOSP. faceplam

Nanaof1 · 06/05/2024 21:10

beanii · 04/05/2024 17:48

But he's still spent time working out what he'll need, potentially visiting the builders merchant to look at products, fuel, vehicle etc.

It's not black and white.

By ringing the merchant yourself I'm surprised he's still doing the job for you, most would've got the measure of you.

@Stouffer123 posted this FACT: * The agreement was I would buy the materials and get them delivered to me and then I would ‘own them’. *

@beanii Do you have any reading comprehension skills at all?

Don't bother. I already know the answer.

Teenagehorrorbag · 06/05/2024 21:14

YES!! All tradesmen have this big scam going on where they charge you a big mark up on any stuff they buy for you. So if you have a bathroom fitted, you really should buy the bathroom suite yourself and then pay someone to fit it.

But it's not that easy to buy things at the 'trade' price.

I had no idea until DH and I bought our house 20 years ago and had to virtually renovate all of it. DH registered as a 'tradesman' with a wholesale firm in Bristol, and we were amazed by the differences in prices! We were given a catalogue showing retail prices which a tradesman can show to their customer, and they choose their fixtures and fittings. For example - we bought a bathroom cabinet to fit around our basin - it was about £45 but the price in the catalogue was more like £120!

So these rip off merchants will quote you £200 a day - or whatever - but will also be making a massive mark up on anything they buy in for you. It's such a con......

Nosleepforthismum · 06/05/2024 21:54

Bollindger · 05/05/2024 11:44

When you are finally finished and you don't need him again, tell him oh you know the £300 materials quibble, well that cost you a 20k job. ! But it is what it is....
He will fume for ages ...

I can imagine he’d be thinking he’d had a lucky escape tbh.

Lottie2shoes · 07/05/2024 09:00

@Humannat Some may do it this way, some may expect the customers to look around because they might have come across a customer who has complained about the materials or the quality of them.

So they give them a chance to shop for the materials themselves to ensure their liking.
Who knows?

Mt61 · 07/05/2024 17:19

Stouffer123 · 01/05/2024 07:44

The merchant are delivering it to my house, so no collection from him.

Yes exactly that’s what seems a bit dodgy to me! He told the merchant not to give me the invoice so I can’t even see it to check, but it’s more that he told me to buy the materials here because it was cheaper and I trusted him, but only cheaper for him! I was going to get the materials myself you see…

He’s a CF, we have just had our fence replaced & I shopped round for fence posts & panels.. would have cost us more through our guy doing the job, according to his quote.

Wotcher · 08/05/2024 15:49

It depends on the tradie. My tradie DP always passes his discount on to the customer, but some don’t. If they don’t, they’d usually bill you for materials via their own invoice rather than get you to make a payment against their account as things like this happen!

Wotcher · 08/05/2024 15:53

Bollindger · 05/05/2024 11:44

When you are finally finished and you don't need him again, tell him oh you know the £300 materials quibble, well that cost you a 20k job. ! But it is what it is....
He will fume for ages ...

No he won’t 😂😂

He’ll just tell his partner about you and laugh at you. My DP has happily walked away from jobs where people have this attitude and he’s better off for it that’s for sure!

Lampshadeblue · 08/05/2024 16:07

I think what is dodgy here is the fact that he convinced the OP that it would be cheaper through him and to not mention his £300 kick back. That’s not honest. Op was perfectly willing to get her own materials. I’ve had this loads in the past - builders trying to bully me to use howdens which is more expensive than I could source elsewhere and of course they get their kick back. If there’s nothing dodgy then they would have be transparent about it.

shearwater2 · 08/05/2024 16:11

When I've had stuff done I've only been charged the trade price - plus then time etc for collecting would be reasonable. The benefit of ordering through the tradesman is that they can get stuff cheaper. If they are in any way getting commission or profiting themselves they should make this clear.

Or I've ordered it myself when there has been no difference.

I agree, YANBU.

Comefromaway · 08/05/2024 16:12

We charge 15-20% mark up on our materials. They get put onto our credit account and paid at the end of the month. It helps to cover our overheads (there is work involved in putting the quote together and getting the list of stuff needed etc.

The discount only applies to items that we as a company buy through our trade account. If a customer wanted to pay for their materials individually then the supplier would charge them normal retail price. The supplier obviously made a mistake quoting the trade price to an individual customer.

Nuttyputty · 08/05/2024 19:11

Lampshadeblue · 08/05/2024 16:07

I think what is dodgy here is the fact that he convinced the OP that it would be cheaper through him and to not mention his £300 kick back. That’s not honest. Op was perfectly willing to get her own materials. I’ve had this loads in the past - builders trying to bully me to use howdens which is more expensive than I could source elsewhere and of course they get their kick back. If there’s nothing dodgy then they would have be transparent about it.

There's no indication she was bullied. You're just making stuff up to fit your narrative and draw a comparative situation.

NotYourAuntie · 08/05/2024 19:16

Stouffer123 · 01/05/2024 06:41

Is it normal practice for contractors to lie about the price of materials? I’ve got a contractor putting up some fencing for me, it’s costing a large amount in total. The agreement was I would buy the materials and get them delivered to me and then I would ‘own them’. He ordered the materials through his trade account and he gave me the price but when I rang up the merchant to pay, the price was significantly lower (about £300). I queried this with him and he said it was an ‘error’ but when I rang the merchant back they told me it was a trade discount. I wasn’t aware of this so feel a bit silly. I just paid it because I didn’t want to cause a fuss, but am I being unreasonable to feel that he lied to me about the price? Is it normal for contractors to do this or is it normal for them to pass the saving onto you. Just want to know if I’m being taken for a ride.

You didn’t buy the materials as he ordered them on his account. So, why would you expect to “earn” the trade discount when you didn’t take the risk of purchasing the materials?

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