We live in a semi detached house on a fairly quiet road. Always had good relationship with neighbours until a few years ago when it started to go a bit sour with next door. We had some issues re the fences and whose responsibility it was to fix them. This has made things very awkward. Turned out it was our fences and we needed to sort it out which we did. Fences broke again last summer and she had some very choice words about us getting them done asap. To be honest this really put my back up, especially when I learned that it had broken again because she had fixed some (too heavy) trellising on it.
When we had the new ones put up I specifically asked for nothing to be attached to them and for them not to be painted. To be honest I was probably being a little petty about the painting but I'm still annoyed at how the situation was dealt with. Went out in the garden yesterday and I've realised it's been painted and now is dripping through on our side so we will now have to paint ours the same colour!
I'm really tempted to message and say something but that's because I'm really angry about it now. I don't want to say something in haste that I will regret afterwards. So should I just forget about it and move on for the sake of not making things even frostier?