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To think that running aimlessly round a field has no benefits

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Unintentionallycausingoffence · 28/04/2024 17:08

Some family members have suggested taking DS to run round a field while the adults stand around chatting as a source of entertainment or a trip out. AIBU in thinking there are far more stimulating and interesting activities?. Having structure to running is better but they mean just running around

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ginasevern · 29/04/2024 15:16

Unintentionallycausingoffence · 29/04/2024 09:53

DS is seven going on eight. They think it’s just somewhere to go, maybe kick a football about or just run around to get some fresh air.

What's wrong with that? I used to take my son out to the countryside/open spaces. He'd kick a ball around or fly a kite if we had one, or just use his imagination and "play". We'd usually take a picnic or maybe just some hot drinks and a few folding chairs.

I honestly don't think kids know how to play anymore. It's got to be a theme park or nothing. It'll do him good.

NewName24 · 29/04/2024 16:43

AnxiousRabbit · 29/04/2024 11:29

So suggest that.
You haven't explained the context here at all. But sounds like suggestion was made in good faith as a way of giving your DS somewhere to burn off energy and get fresh air.
It's a reasonable suggestion.

I have definitely been in a situation many times when family have been together and the kids are getting over excited and frustrated and literally bouncing off walls and breaking stuff accidentally. we just say, "right let's go on a walk/let's go and have a run about on the field" and we all head out together.
If someone thought that was unsuitable for their child they could just say me and Johnny will stay here, or let's play in the garden, or let's go to the playground or whatever worked for them.

This.

From what you put in your first post, YA obviously BVU.

Now, depending on your dc's very specific needs, it might or might not be something he can cope with, we don't know him. Presumably, whoever suggested this wasn't aware that this would, in your view, be unsuitable for him.
Perhaps explain to them why you think it won't work, and either people can come up with mitigations, or people might be willing to go to one of your alternative suggestions. Talk to them and see.

Unintentionallycausingoffence · 12/05/2024 12:00

I have since sort advice on safe places and safe ways to do this, which I’m going to try. Including stimulating and activities is probably a good idea. DS school schedules a lot of safe outdoor play into their daily timetable

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