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MIGreedy · 28/04/2024 15:26

My ex for 30 years name is on an investment that I bought with my own money. We each had our own investments and shared investments during our not too long marriage. This was overlooked during a very amicable separation. I've never needed the money and was waiting to see who died first. Now I want to build a barn and the investment is now at an all time high at over $40,000. I'm thinking of offering her $5,000 to sign off. AIBU?

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TinyYellow · 30/04/2024 21:32

Morally, if she contributed nothing to this investment then she deserves no return from this investment but legally is likely to be very different. It will all depend on how decent a human she wants to be.

Left · 30/04/2024 21:34

Maybe get some legal advice in your country.

Probs get a more accurate answer than asking an internet forum that you’ve randomly stumbled on.

OrigamiOwls · 30/04/2024 21:38

StormingNorman · 30/04/2024 21:28

I think overlooked is a euphemism for hidden

Yes, I would assume so, I was just wondering if OP had some form of justification for it

OrigamiOwls · 30/04/2024 21:39

Why would you think your ex would accept such a small percentage of the value?

StormingNorman · 30/04/2024 22:15

TinyYellow · 30/04/2024 21:32

Morally, if she contributed nothing to this investment then she deserves no return from this investment but legally is likely to be very different. It will all depend on how decent a human she wants to be.

Unless she made an indirect contribution that enabled her then-husband to make the investment. It is all family money on MN after all.

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