Hi so I started to ‘hang out’ with a guy back in December and I say hang out because this guy made it very clear that’s all he wanted the first couple of weeks in and that’s fine and I knew what the situation was but he texted everyday and we hung out every weekend and then from Monday this week he has went radio silence, No texts nada! I work with them and even in work they have been very blank towards me but I’ve still kept it professional as it was before.
A few weeks ago they announced they were going away for a few days with a female friend and I won’t lie when I say I was a bit jealous but I kept my cool and never mentioned how it made me feel but im probably reading too much into it and thinking this could be linked to them going silent as we have had no disagreements or arguments, they have just switched up and it’s hurt my feelings. My question is.. I havent reached out either as I’m not one to chase and if someone switches up I tend to let them be and not confront them about it but should I reach out or let them be? I just don’t understand how someone can switch up so fast when we got on super well.