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To ask what you'd think if you got this letter please?

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fruitandbarley · 24/04/2024 23:02

If you received a letter from another parent at your kids school saying that kids had been playing together at school and that their child had said they'd like to arrange to play together outside of school ( playdate I suppose but I hate that word), and saying that they'd tried to catch you in playground but other kid goes to after school club so never there at same time, and to let them know if you'd like to arrange something.
Would you think it was weird, or ok?
I'm the one who sent the letter, we've not long moved to the area.
I've had no message/reply so wondering now if they think I'm odd.

OP posts:
StarlightLime · 25/04/2024 00:17

fruitandbarley · 24/04/2024 23:18

Thanks all, I gave the note to the leader of after school club to pass on as my son and the other child were both there.

I didn't mention not seen them because he was in after school club, just said kept missing them.

Thanks for replying, its been hard relocating and I don't know anyone and feel very awkward in playground with groups of parents already chatting, but been forcing myself to try and speak to people for my children's sake.

Starting to think I'm probably over thinking it now which knowing me is highly likely.

Maybe check with the leader? Hopefully he didn't just put it in the child's bag!

Fluffywigg · 25/04/2024 00:23

perfectly fine OP. I done that a few years ago as DC kept mentioning this name so I just asked school to pop it in the friends bag/pass it on to parent. I was often at work and I didn’t know who the parents were. It was close to the summer holidays so I thought it’s now or never 🤣

Then I got a text off the Mum a few days later saying great let’s meet and the kids have been best friends ever since!

YeahComeOnThen · 25/04/2024 06:59

fruitandbarley · 24/04/2024 23:27

They're in reception, and I only sent it 3 days ago. I should probably stop thinking about it really. Thanks

@fruitandbarley yeah only 3 days, I'd leave it a bit, but there was nothing wrong with your note, however, next time a big bright envelope or attached to a lion maybe? Small notes are likely to fester in school bags orvslip inside a book or something.

anon4net · 25/04/2024 07:03

Totally normal and lovely to receive a note like that.

If they are anything like me it will take a few days/week to reply!

OhYoko · 25/04/2024 08:33

I'd like it. I struggle with the "rules" of these things and would appreciate an explicit letter like that.

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