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Village held hostage by feral teenage girls

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ElatedShark · 24/04/2024 16:45

Village held hostage by feral teenage girls calls in private security to patrol the streets as their sleepy neighbourhood becomes overrun by youths.

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A village caught in the grip of a shoplifting epidemic by feral children have called in private security to patrol their streets
Villagers in Barnham, West Sussex say they are being held hostage by youths fighting, looting shops, vandalising property and threatening staff.
Antisocial behaviour in the leafy coastal village has continued despite extra police carrying out patrols and making 14 arrests.
Local businesses said youths steal alcoholfrom Tesco Express and the Co-op near the railway station and then get 'very aggressive'.
There was also a report of a trespasser and also sightings of children climbing fences near the railway line that runs through the village last Tuesday.
Village held hostage by feral teenage girls calls in private security

Village held hostage by feral teenage girls calls in private security

The owner of a small taxi firm nearby said between 60 and 100 commuters were stranded for around an hour as trains were halted, including holidaymakers on their way to Gatwick.
Arun District Council has now paid for private security guards from MS Security Services to patrol the high street in a bid to stop shoplifting and antisocial behaviour.

Source:
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13344617/amp/barnham-emergency-meeting-village-lawless-teenagers.html

My parents live here, it's very scary to hear something like this happening here. This type of behaviour seems to be spreading from London to rural areas.

Village held hostage by feral teenage girls calls in private security

Villagers living in Barnham, West Sussex say there lives are being made miserable by groups of feral teenagers causing trouble.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13344617/amp/barnham-emergency-meeting-village-lawless-teenagers.html

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DrJoanAllenby · 25/04/2024 10:35

The village held hostage by feral teenagers: Hundreds of terrified neighbours too afraid to leave their homes hold emergency meeting as their sleepy area turns lawless – with packs of cannabis-smoking girls fighting, looting shops and attacking staff.

Villagers in Barnham, West Sussex say they are being held hostage by youths fighting, looting shops, vandalising property and threatening staff.

Antisocial behaviour in the leafy coastal village has continued despite extra police carrying out patrols and making 14 arrests.
Local businesses said youths steal alcoholl from Tescoo Express and the Co-op near the railway station and then get 'very aggressive'.
There was also a report of a trespasser and also sightings of children climbing fences near the railway line that runs through the village last Tuesday.

The owner of a small taxi firm nearby said between 60 and 100 commuters were stranded for around an hour as trains were halted, including holidaymakers on their way to Gatwick.
Arun District Council has now paid for private security guards from MS Security Services to patrol the high street in a bid to stop shoplifting and antisocial behaviour.

It comes after a video, which went viral, of girls attacking railway security staff at the beginning of April.
Sussex Police issued a dispersal order following the incident and four teenage girls were arrested.
It gives officers the power to disperse groups gathering in the area and order them not to return for up to 48 hours.
But within 48 hours, a second clip went viral of another group of young girls appearing to loot the village's local Co-opp_. The store said they took cans of Red Bull without paying.
There were also two trespass incidents at Barnham on April 16 which caused disruption, including one where three youths were removed from a train. They were then seen climbing over a fence near the station.

It has been getting worse and worse the last few months,' said Mehdi Gholamzadeh, owner of Baps 'n' Buns cafe and Barnham Kebab and Pizza House.
'When they get together it's like 20 of them, they nick things from Tesco and Co-op. They are often drinking and smashed the bottles on the road. I had to get four flat tyres changed because of it.
'It has been going on for seven to eight months now, it has been getting worse and worse.'
He added: 'They come nearly every day to the kebab shop. It has been better the last few weeks with the security guards. People are fed up to be honest.
'All the locals are fed up, we had a big meeting. There was a dispersal order from the police but it was only 48 hours, it doesn't make much of a difference.

'On Halloween, one girl came in drunk and we didn't let her use the toilet. They went to the Co-op and nicked eggs and flour and threw it at the shop window. We had to close, there were eight or nine of them being very aggressive.
'We spent two hours cleaning the windows and pavement. We were on the phone to the police and had orders coming in that we were missing. We lost about £400 in orders.
'The kids think because they are not adults they can get away with it. I am worried it will get worse in the summer, they are more likely to drink more and stay out late.'

The owner of Barnham Station Taxis, who asked not to be named, said: 'These kids have got out of control. What can you do for them, they know there is no consequence.
'We messed around as children but not like this. Security has gone backwards, they are not scared. They're feral, they go around in packs.

'It is all about consequences and there is no consequence for these children.
'The government or whoever does not want to punish them.
'They know they can do it here because it's a village. They wouldn't get away with it in a city.
'Between 60 and 100 people were outside the station because of the children on the tracks the other night. People were going to Gatwick and had their suitcases.
'They should do community services, paint fences or something.'
One supermarket worker said: 'It has been a few groups of teenagers coming into Barnham and causing trouble. We have had some instances of them coming in, fights outside, stealing energy drinks and meal deals mostly.

'It's quite frustrating, it's the safety aspect of it for us. The police had meetings with just businesses in the area, they have been really good.'
Another shop worker said: 'They come in here and Tesco, anywhere they can steal alcohol. It's not that the police aren't doing anything, it's they can't seem to stop them. There are 15 banning orders here but that doesn't seem to stop them.'
The council has put also signs up in shops about reporting antisocial behaviour. An emergency meeting was held at the nearby village hall.
Govia Thameslink Railway said it is working 'flat out with the police, council and other agencies to tackle this wider, regional issue of youth violence that is affecting communities on the South Coast'.

Children would steal food, cigarettes and alcohol from businesses near railway stations.
............

Personally I would round them up and put them in stocks.

TonTonMacoute · 25/04/2024 12:11

Hateam · 25/04/2024 09:20

I think the London comment has been fully dealt with.

I do believe there is an issue with the behaviour of teens deteriorating.

I'm a teacher. They get away with too much in school and it's spreading. Behaviour in our schools is often awful; there are few consequences for poor behaviour and too many excuses made.

Edited

I pretty much agree with this. I read an interview with John Lydon this morning and he was asked about where he grew up. He said:
^^
We lived near where they’ve built Arsenal’s new stadium [in Holloway, north London]. It was very working-class, all races, creeds and colours, and very friendly and neighbourly. There was no stealing, because everyone on the street would bash any kid behaving inappropriately and you’d really get it when you returned home. Not that I’m advocating violence against children.

There is no way you can punish or discipline children who aren't yours these days. If you even try you can end up in trouble yourself, and actually even if they are yours it's sometimes impossible. They literally face no consequences for bad behaviour.

Obviously the vast majority of kids don't want to be naughty, it takes very few of them to cause quite a lot of trouble and no one seems to be able to do anything to stop them or change bad behaviour.

Pluviophile1 · 25/04/2024 12:11

Young people living in rural areas can be dicks. I think it's evidence of an increased feeling of entitlement (and that is not just amongst teenagers), rather than behaviour spreading from one area to another.

Lakeyloo · 25/04/2024 12:23

BabbleBee · 25/04/2024 10:14

Barnham is not being held hostage. Ridiculous sensationalism.

Barnham has had a handful of occasions where kids come into the village by train looking for trouble. The last incident was unpleasant and made the news which has blown it out of proportion.

Let’s be fair, this isn’t a London problem. They’re more likely to be coming from Bognor in their faux “gangs” which is perpetuated by the parents of these kids. There’s little authority or accountability, the police around the villages are non-existent and can do very little even when they do get hold of the kids.

Pretty much what I came to say... I live fairly locally and there have been minor issues with these little "gangs" along this part of the rail network on and off for a long time, anywhere between Worthing and Bognor. It's easy for them to jump on the train and congregate at a particular stop. If it's not Barnham it will be Littlehampton/Angmering/ somewhere else.

It certainly needs sorting though but as you say, I cant remember the last time I saw any police around here.

StaunchMomma · 25/04/2024 12:26

This type of behaviour seems to be spreading from London to rural areas.

😂

Underhisi · 25/04/2024 12:39

I live in a village nowhere near London and every so often we get flare ups of antisocial behaviour. Teenagers running in and out of local shops, shouting abuse at passers-by, being a nuisance at the railway station, setting fire to a post box etc. Sometimes it is teenagers from the village. Sometimes it those from other villages and towns. Generally one or two ringleaders and lots of hangers on.

10 years ago there were lots of drunk teenagers wandering about but we don't tend to get that now.
What usually happens is that they leave school, grow up and move on from that behaviour.

clarepetal · 25/04/2024 14:22

OreganoandFeta · 24/04/2024 19:25

I grew up near Barnham and there were feral kids in the area back then. I'm wondering whether these teenagers are the children or possibly grandchildren of some of my more "challenging" classmates. The rural parts of West Sussex are popular with retirees and have always had a lot more activities for retired people than teenagers, which might be part of the problem.

Exactly this. I live near and there is nothing for teenagers.

MuchTooTired · 25/04/2024 14:27

FictionalCharacter · 24/04/2024 17:00

How do you think London is to blame for the behaviour of teenagers in rural areas? Do you think they go to London on a day trip, observe antisocial behaviour (which isn’t particularly high) and think yeah, I’ll go back home and do that?

It’s all those filthy Londoners moving out into the countryside with their asbo children buying up homes forcing out decent hard working locals obviously. Not a home grown problem, it’s the townies.

Priminister · 25/04/2024 14:28

Good god. If you must copy and paste from that rag, at least remove the superfluous headlines.

User135644 · 25/04/2024 14:29

The police are beyond useless if they can't deal with them.

CactusMactus · 25/04/2024 15:03

Currently in London... I have twitched round the net curtains and can confirm.... no feral girls. No looting. No open drug deals. No shoplifting.

Please keep your crazed villages girls to your leafy coastal towns... London is fine.

MushMonster · 25/04/2024 17:07

I am not sure it is entitlement. I think is more lack of boundaries and authority when they were little, plus a continous sense of doom when it comes to the future, their future. And that they do feel and think that they are untouchable.
Their teachers cannot raise their voice to them or give them detention. Parents cannot be strict on punishments or keep them in the house grounded. Police cannot arrest and prosecute them. I mean, yes we can do all these things, but we have gone too soft ( shall I date say woke and afraid of being accused of things?), to be harsh with them. But these kids are in urgent need of finding where the boundaries and authority is. Starting with the police.
And, maybe, in need of finding something fun to do.

OhHelloMiss · 25/04/2024 17:51

User135644 · 25/04/2024 14:29

The police are beyond useless if they can't deal with them.

Same as the parents then.... and the teachers...,

Hate to say it. But it takes 'a village' ...

Or at least it used to.!

TonTonMacoute · 27/04/2024 18:07

User135644 · 25/04/2024 14:29

The police are beyond useless if they can't deal with them.

Police numbers have been slashed, and in rural regions a handful of officers may have to cover a huge area. They simply cannot deal with everything.

A village near us does have a group of people who unofficially police ‘undesirables’ quite effectively.

PugInABeret · 27/04/2024 19:44

I seriously don't understand where this concept that teachers cannot shout or give detentions to kids comes from. That it's not at all my dc experience of school and as far as I am aware schools in this country are getting stricter and stricter.

Ringpeace · 29/04/2024 11:49

PugInABeret · 27/04/2024 19:44

I seriously don't understand where this concept that teachers cannot shout or give detentions to kids comes from. That it's not at all my dc experience of school and as far as I am aware schools in this country are getting stricter and stricter.

Absolutely.

I'm proud to say I'm married to a teacher.

Their school is FAR stricter than anything I experienced in the 70s and 80s.

In any case, it's not a teacher's job to parent other peoples' kids. School is not a childminding service.

CurlewKate · 29/04/2024 11:55

"Feral teenage girls"? Presumably the boys are all pillars of the community....

BobbyBiscuits · 29/04/2024 11:56

I don't know of anywhere in London that's being held hostage by teenage girls. So maybe it's just that they are bored. If they lived in a city they'd have more to do, more ground to cover so it looks less obvious. I guess it's a shame but just because you live in a nice village doesn't mean you don't or won't get kids acting arseholes. It's good they have the money to pay for private security. Though obviously the police should be involved if anything criminal is going on. But unfortunately if they hear it's teens shoplifting of vandalising stuff they probably won't deem it urgent or even criminal.

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