To wonder why men think this is ok?

[buttonchocolate]

So maybe 7 years ago a guy I went to school with messaged me (we barely spoke in school) and we got chatting and we met up a couple of times etc.

On NYE I messaged him a bit drunk to say wish I could be spending it with him. His girlfriend saw the text (the girlfriend I thought he’d broken up with before we started talking but no) and he admitted everything to me, deleted each other off socials and they stayed together. I wouldn’t have wanted to be with him anyway after that.

Now I’ve just had a message request off his on Instagram and his profile is of him and presumably his child that he’s had in the last 7 years.

I’m not interested but it infuriates me, he lied to me, used me, had no intention of being with me, so like why hasn’t he just moved on?

He clearly thinks he can treat women badly and they’ll accept whatever breadcrumbs he throws at them.
Just ignore, don’t inflate his ego by letting him know you feel anything for him (even if it’s disgust!) x

Argh. There's a certain type of man that always comes back. I don't know why either.

I once had a man break off our engagement. He started messaging me once someone told him I was getting married to someone else. Just why?!

They think it's OK because they only care about themselves and getting what they want