I have a bmi of around 40 (down from 43) and we've been TTC our second for over a year. I'm sure my weight in the issue although all the hormone tests have come back normal and I don't have PCOS. It also means I can't access even private fertility treatment.
I've been trying really hard calorie cutting and exercise but it feels like a slow process and I'm wondering about using Ozempic to speed things up. Realistically I've come to terms with wanting to be in better shape anyway for another pregnancy. I was OK in the last one but younger and didn't have a toddler to run around after. I definitely mindlessly put things in my mouth before I've realised so I hope it would put a stop to all that.
This would of course mean stopping TTC for a bit and that is what is stopping me as I'm panicking about my rapidly aging eggs (just turned 36). I also have got so used to the montly process I think I'd find it hard to let go emotionally and not try as much as possible.
YANBU- Stop TTC and try the drugs
YABU- Keep TTC and lose weight the old fashioned way.
Please be nice as infertility, even secondary infertility, is shitty!