For having these feelings?

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Have recently developed feelings for a close family member of my DH.

Really struggling. What should I do?

His sister or his adult son?

Whoever it is, if you value your marriage, you must ensure that:

~you spend as little time as possible with this person and never spend any time alone with them obviously.

~you try re-igniting the relationship with your dh and address any issues you may have

~you fill up your time up with other activities to take your mind off this person

Do absolutely nothing. Stay away from the family member. You cannot even go there after a divorce.

A friend left his wife for his wife’s sister and it was messy. Sisters went NC (obviously), parents stopped talking to sister too, kids stopped talking to dad and lost their aunt. Literally everybody got hurt and lost people.

If you pursued the relationship be prepared to lose everybody else including any kids you may have.