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Is it acceptable for a Year 10 English teacher to say this?

60 replies

AreolaGrande · 17/04/2024 22:42

"Where was you up to?"

Said to a student in relation to a text.

YABU = yes, it is acceptable
YANBU = no, it is not acceptable.

OP posts:
Coincidentally · 18/04/2024 07:57

Plantlamptreehouse · 18/04/2024 07:52

100% this. I never made a fuss of speaking "properly" in the classroom. One of the things you teach in English is audience and purpose. If you've got a class of 14 year olds in front of you, you adapt to your audience. You're going to get more out of them if you speak in a familiar way. I'm a firm believer that children learn better when they're comfortable and rapport is one of the best tools in a teacher's armoury - if this means slang and the occasional "innit" then so be it.

No!! Cringey! Yes know your audience but being down with the kids is patronising and they find it cringey.
I am a teacher -not English- and I don’t use the excuse of ‘menopausal brain fog’ to be unprofessional-which this is.

FangsForTheMemory · 18/04/2024 09:36

It’s a regional variant. You might want to google the difference between ’langue’ and ‘parole’.

PoppyCherryDog · 18/04/2024 09:40

TheGiantEmperor · 17/04/2024 22:57

Burn her at the stake!

I think this is the only option here

idontlikealdi · 18/04/2024 09:43

I started a thread a few years ago and got blasted. DTs head used to say 'we was going', 'what was you doing'. Hate it.

It's not a regional variant here, and he is from here, it's lazy and incorrect.

KreedKafer · 18/04/2024 09:53

If they teach English, they are presumably fully aware that there are different modes of English for different settings and that grammar shifts in different dialects. There's a difference between the language people use in casual speech, and the language people use in an essay. Understanding those differences and being able to switch modes is an important element of language development.

So yes, it's perfectly 'acceptable' to say 'Where was you up to?' in a casual conversation with a pupil during a lesson.

I have a degree in English and my living is mostly writing and editing. I've also got a strong accent and there are various dialect elements to my casual speech. I would say something like 'He weren't too happy about it' in a relaxed team meeting with my colleagues. If I was having a more formal conversation with people I didn't know as well, or writing an email, I'd say 'He wasn't very happy about it'.

KreedKafer · 18/04/2024 09:56

As always in these threads, I see that it's the people who think they are well-educated because they know what's 'correct' who are inadvertently revealing themselves to be extremely ignorant about linguistics.

Welshmonster · 18/04/2024 09:59

And people wonder why teachers are leaving the profession every term! Be grateful your child knows the difference for formal English.

Dweetfidilove · 18/04/2024 10:05

Not acceptable for any year group, no.

Given the recruitment crisis it’s unsurprising, so brace yourself for more of the same.

Maddy70 · 18/04/2024 10:29

Different parts of Britain have different ways of speaking.

It's not correct but cant get worked up about it

Plantlamptreehouse · 18/04/2024 15:57

@Coincidentally speak for yourself - they might find it cringey when you do it 😂

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