Like this morning when we were checking out of a hotel, I wanted to just give the key cards back to reception like you are supposed to but DH kept insisting that he wants to keep them like he always does. I don't understand why he can't just do things properly like everyone else does, like everyone else just gives the key cards back like you are supposed to. I don't even understand why he wants to keep the key cards anyway in the first place. It is always his way or the highway. He never listens to anyone else or their opinions, everything has to be done his way otherwise he kicks off at me. This is just one example, I could give many more, I'm getting fed up of it everyday and it is everyday. If I do or say something that he doesn't like or doesn't want to do then he just kicks off at me. He even tries to control how I parent my DD, she is not his daughter. He just takes over everything and everything has to be the way that he wants it or I get shouted at. Aibu to want DH to listen to me and do things properly?Â
AIBU?
To want DH to listen to me and do things properly?
ByBlueGoose · 17/04/2024 21:12
Am I being unreasonable?
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POLLPocketfullofdogtreats · 17/04/2024 21:19
Why on earth does he want to keep the key cards? They will just clutter up the house and he'll forget where he got them anyway. I hoard all sorts of bits of paper (boarding passes etc) but I don't understand this
Pocketfullofdogtreats · 17/04/2024 21:19
Why on earth does he want to keep the key cards? They will just clutter up the house and he'll forget where he got them anyway. I hoard all sorts of bits of paper (boarding passes etc) but I don't understand this
Pocketfullofdogtreats · 17/04/2024 21:19
Why on earth does he want to keep the key cards? They will just clutter up the house and he'll forget where he got them anyway. I hoard all sorts of bits of paper (boarding passes etc) but I don't understand this
Rachie1973 · 17/04/2024 21:18
You both sound determined to have your own way.
i have to admit though if my partner kept telling me how to do it properly I’d get pretty pissed off too.
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allfurcoatnoknickers · 17/04/2024 21:37
I keep the key cards from posh hotels . They're a little memento from a fun or memorable trip. I don't think it's that weird...
Pocketfullofdogtreats · 17/04/2024 21:19
Why on earth does he want to keep the key cards? They will just clutter up the house and he'll forget where he got them anyway. I hoard all sorts of bits of paper (boarding passes etc) but I don't understand this
SherrieElmer · 17/04/2024 22:38
He may want to keep the cards as mementos. Weird, but I have seen worse.
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