Like this morning when we were checking out of a hotel, I wanted to just give the key cards back to reception like you are supposed to but DH kept insisting that he wants to keep them like he always does. I don't understand why he can't just do things properly like everyone else does, like everyone else just gives the key cards back like you are supposed to. I don't even understand why he wants to keep the key cards anyway in the first place. It is always his way or the highway. He never listens to anyone else or their opinions, everything has to be done his way otherwise he kicks off at me. This is just one example, I could give many more, I'm getting fed up of it everyday and it is everyday. If I do or say something that he doesn't like or doesn't want to do then he just kicks off at me. He even tries to control how I parent my DD, she is not his daughter. He just takes over everything and everything has to be the way that he wants it or I get shouted at. Aibu to want DH to listen to me and do things properly?