Went on a first date with someone a few weeks ago. Met on OLD, seemed really lovely, we went to an exhibition for our first date and there was a lot of back and forth conversation. Felt very comfortable with him, no weird red flags.
One thing that got me a little bit hmm was he said half way through the date that he was looking for his “relationship that would lead to marriage”. Thought that was a bit much for a first date but friends told me he just wanted to be open.
Second date was a bit different. Went for food and then asked me out the blue “what are you into sexually”. I said didn’t want to talk about it, and he told me he loved some pretty normal aspects of sex (kissing for example) and then proceeded to show me his dating profiles!!!! I was turned off immediately and stopped talking, started making my excuses to leave. Then he kept asking to kiss me, which I said no. He kept pushing that.
I’ve just got out of a LTR so I’m weary that I might be overthinking it, but this isn’t normal behavior is it??! I think things like kissing and talk about sex should come naturally and it felt so awkward. So different from first date though, I don’t know whether to give him the benefit of the doubt!