Liking another girls photos

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I have been dating a guy now for around 5 months. We are exclusive but taking things slowly.
A couple of months ago, I saw on social media that he had liked a girl (about twenty years younger than him) photos, infact all of them. These included photos of her in a bikini, seductive photos etc.
As you can imagine i wasnt impressed and i raised it with him saying i found this behaviour disrespectful. Turns out its a work colleague and they regularly go out etc...ive never met any of his friends or this person. He said it was good i said my boundaries but it was nothing to worry about. He then deleted social media because it wasnt worth upsetting me, which i found really strange. Anyway, low and behold hes got social media back, liked all her new bikini photos and to make things worse, none of my posts (i feel abit childish for saying this). He says i read to much into social media but i just cant stand being made a fool of.

Am i right to confront and say something? I feel so disrespected and upset.

He’s showing you who he is, and what his priorities are.

Why bother saying anything? I’d just walk away from this man and his behaviour, he will never change so you either accept it, or walk from it, no point being in battles with him about it.

Im 30 hes 40

Thats true. Im tired lol

I'd find it very cringe if a 40 year old man was liking bikini photos of a woman 20 years younger.

It's all a bit cringe isn't it? And only 5 months in. I'd be taking every opportunity to comment on hot males when he's around. See how he likes it. Then dump him.

He sounds really immature for a 40 year old. No wonder he's liking pics of girls young enough to be his daughter and dating women a decade younger.

Hes her boss too. We are both in leadership, hes further than me obviously. I feel so embarrased also as I have mutual friends with her.

Eww you can do better than that

What a sad, pathetic excuse for a man, after only 5 months he should be all over you, not perving over some 20 year old subordinate colleague. Taking it slow? I'd put a total stop on it, you can do so much better. If he's treating you so disrespectfully 5 months in, what's he going to be like in a year, 5 years...? Raise your bar. Also, that poor youngster having her boss perving over her, even if at the moment she likes the attention from her boss, it's totally inappropriate!

He sounds like a dirty old man. Put him swiftly in the bin OP and find someone who aligns with your values. It will only get worse.

ICK ICK ICK ICK

Oh got it gets worse. Throw this one back, OP. He's a sleaze.

OMG. Sleazy middle aged creep. Just dump him.

He's embarrassing himself with his mid life crisis. Does he really think his employee doesn't think he's a bit pathetic?

I put up with this in a previous relationship (a coworker) and am so embarrassed by it now. Younger guys I could maybe forgive but at his age, it's so icky.

Creepy

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He sounds like a proper little perv. Eww

Had this with my ex. He told me I was controlling and the usual shite. It is rude and disrespectful imo and if I were you I would get out now. He wont change.

yes it’s ick that she’s younger than him and a colleague. But how do you know he’s liking them? Are you checking?

Just dump him, he sounds like a loser and you shouldn’t be having these doubts or dramas within 5 months. Don’t give him the satisfaction of telling him why. Just tell him you don’t think it’s working out.

Ditto. Turned into a saga of emotional abuse and cheating.

Oh I am only finding out the extent of my 'omg i am THE most genuine man ever' saga. He had two phones I get it one for work but in one phone he had two sims. One to chat to me and his friends etc and one for his online 'girls' and I do mean GIRLS. I dont think I will ever trust a man again.