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‘What’s Your Availability….?’

20 replies

Chewbacalava · 14/04/2024 08:43

When asked this and I replied ‘Wed’s morning 9am until 11:30am along with some other days/times - AIBU to expect the other person to realise that after 11:30 on Weds I am not available?

They have booked a meeting for 11:30 on Weds.
This has happened before with other people so I’m now thinking the problem is me.

OP posts:
Fimofriend · 14/04/2024 08:45

No it's them. They are being rude and if it is a job interview it might even be a sort of test. Either way, I would avoid them.

saveforthat · 14/04/2024 08:45

It's pretty clear to me but perhaps they read it as you are free at 9 and 11.30

Alittlefrustrated · 14/04/2024 08:47

They've skim read the times and not the words. Decline.

Gatehouse77 · 14/04/2024 08:48

Do you put that information in amongst text or in, for example, bullet points?

I’ve found that the layout can make a difference.

Even then I’ve had people suggest a date I’ve specifically singled out as unavailable 😤

AUDHDVET · 14/04/2024 08:49

I find people do this too so now I just whack a bit of time off my availability. If I was really free 9-11.30 I’d say 9-11 as no doubt they’ll say 11

Whaleandsnail6 · 14/04/2024 08:49

I've had this hapepen to me before so Ive started adding the words from and until e.g from 9.30am until 11.30am. Just to be implicitly clear!

AhBiscuits · 14/04/2024 08:49

They haven't read it properly. They thought you were busy 9-11:30.

WrylyAmused · 14/04/2024 08:50

People don't read things properly and just focus on the numbers, without the extremely relevant surrounding context.

Most of the time, it's not you, it's them.

Hesma · 14/04/2024 08:50

It’s you, you’ve given them until 11.30 as available to start a meeting.

AE9766 · 14/04/2024 08:51

No, it's not you. Peoples' reading comprehension these days is shockingly poor. I'd reply and point out their error. I know that's supposed to be rude, but how are people ever going to learn otherwise?

Kalevala · 14/04/2024 08:51

Unless it was a thing that runs for a set time, where it could read as you could do an 11:30 appointment, then the problem is them.

Catza · 14/04/2024 08:52

When I provide my availability, I state the times I am available for a meeting. For example, if I am free till 11.30 but I anticipate the meeting to take an hour, I would put my availability as 9-10.30.

Strugglingtodomybest · 14/04/2024 08:53

It's not you, it's them and their poor comprehension skills.

I would reply pointing out their mistake.

Duckinglunacy · 14/04/2024 08:55

This happens to me sometimes - your only option right now is to go back and say, ‘oh sorry I think my message wasn’t clear, I have a commitment at 1130 but am available beforehand’

I’ve started to go with detailing the times I cannot do which sometimes works better, eg ‘I currently have commitments at x and y but am otherwise available’ … and depending on the audience and confidentiality I sometimes screenshot my diary.

seagullsky · 14/04/2024 09:01

It’s them. 9:30-11:30 is the window in which you are free and means “I am free until 11:30 and at that time I stop being free.

financialcareerstuff · 14/04/2024 09:15

They are interpreting it as : 'I can accept an appointment that starts within this range'

S4ll4 · 14/04/2024 09:17

Catza · 14/04/2024 08:52

When I provide my availability, I state the times I am available for a meeting. For example, if I am free till 11.30 but I anticipate the meeting to take an hour, I would put my availability as 9-10.30.

To me, and I think 90% of people on the thread, that reads as though you need the meeting to be finished by 10:30.

Sapphire387 · 14/04/2024 09:22

If you're free until 11.30 that means the meeting needs to finish by 11.30, not start at 11.30.

Chewbacalava · 14/04/2024 09:24

@Fimofriend yes its an interview and I’m now stuck with changing my other meetings as I don’t want to annoy them given that it’s clearly interpreted differently on here 😁

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ToffeePennie · 14/04/2024 09:36

This is a them issue that I come across all the time in my business.
if someone messages asking for appointments and I say “my next avaliable date and time is 20th May at 2pm” that is my next appointment, I can’t magic more time out of my butt!
you are absolutely in the right here.

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