Had a good relationship with my in laws. Over the past few years it's slowly worsen. Got to the point last year where I went NC with them all, as they expected me to go above & beyond for them yet would never do anything to help me or DH/dc in return and would regularly throw it back in my face.
Started speaking to them again around Christmas time but I have been very distant, keep myself to myself as much as I can as I just do not enjoy their company they are very selfish people. I am only civil for DCs sake otherwise I would be happy to continue being nc.
Was my DN birthday and I got my children to text her from myself & them, assumed DH had also text DN happy birthday.
Got a nasty text this morning from SIL going off that I didn't text DN myself. 🙄 she's regularly forgotten my own DCs birthdays many, many times in the past and I've never called her out on it. My children text her I don't see what I've done wrong?
Was I in the wrong or are they just being overly dramatic?