I know this isn’t really an AIBU but it seems to be the busiest page and the one I read the most.
Bit of background - I had a brain haemorrhage 10 years ago, have degenerative disc disease, rheumatoid arthritis and fibromyalgia. I’m falling to bloody pieces and very bitter about it!
I haven’t worked for a while as, after my brain injury, I just kept losing jobs due to my inability to manage them. I interview very well (not so much since I started using a walking stick as that tends to make interviewers eyes glaze over!), but, in reality, I struggle to train for anything new and tire extremely easily.
I struggle with short term memory, neuro fatigue (I can be full of energy one day, then crash completely for a week), can’t sit upright for too long due to my back, ditto standing, struggle to learn new systems (I do eventually, but it takes me a lot longer than most people), can’t always drive as my left side fails when I’m over tired, and I know I wouldn’t be a reliable employee in the slightest! Just being honest!
I am, however, eloquent, intelligent and desperately want to work. I need more money coming in. DS is starting university in September (will still be living at home though), so child benefit, tax credits etc will stop. I receive PIP, plus rent from my dad’s house which I have tenants in, so don’t qualify for any means tested benefits and I’m going to struggle come September, so I need to either evict my tenants and sell the house - which will keep the wolves from the door whilst I live off the proceeds - or find a job.
My employment background is mainly sales, retail and banking. Couldn’t cope with a full time job in any of those fields nowadays, much as I hate to admit it. I need part time, flexible, WFH preferably and an understanding employer, or I need to set up on my own doing something that will earn me a bit.
I don’t need to earn a lot. I have no mortgage and we live fairly modestly. I do need to run my car though, as it’s my lifeline with not being able to walk far. Would prefer to set up on my own doing something due to my self confessed unreliability!
I've applied for hundreds of jobs over the last couple of years and haven’t even got to interview stage. Not sure if that’s because I’ve been out of work a while, or because I’m ticking the box to say I have a disability.
Please throw any ideas at me! Thanks in advance!