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Dd has started running away at bedtime

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Somethingokonnetflixforonce · 11/04/2024 20:16

Very recent thing, Dd is 5.5 so not little little, now when it’s time for bed, she’ll run out into the garden, deliberately start going on her bike or the trampoline and ignoring me. She gets very giddy and uncontrollable and I end up
losing my temper.
Anyone else’s child do this and how do you cope with it? Tired of getting cross every night

OP posts:
LancashireSquirrel · 11/04/2024 21:52

Janniss543 · 11/04/2024 21:41

Put her to bed and run away before she does.

Grin
YourSnugHazelTraybake · 11/04/2024 21:57

Iwonderwhere · 11/04/2024 20:57

Why is it unsafe? Lost!

Because the child can unlock it without an adult. Child could wake up and let themselves out without an adult knowing.

jannier · 11/04/2024 22:41

Iwonderwhere · 11/04/2024 20:57

Why is it unsafe? Lost!

Child can let themselves out

caringcarer · 12/04/2024 01:09

jannier · 11/04/2024 22:41

Child can let themselves out

And apparently there are no keys.

UndertheCedartree · 12/04/2024 04:35

Saymyname28 · 11/04/2024 20:38

"You can come in now and we can read before bed. Or if I have to come and get you we won't have time for stories." Shut her in her room "we don't have time for stories because you were messing about"

Then the next day "remember how upset you were when we didn't have time for bedtime stories? Are you going to come have stories or mess about again?"

Why would she stop if it doesn't have consequences?

Well, if she has a need for getting worn out at bedtime you could meet that need (or whatever the need is) and then there is no need for punishments.

HaudYerWheeshtYaWeeBellend · 12/04/2024 04:42

I’d be putting child proof door locks on, not just because of her bedtime routine but for her own personal safety.

HowToSaveAWife · 12/04/2024 04:45

First, your door is really unsafe and you need to get a child lock mechanism. Lots on Amazon, I have one that needs to be pushed in hard from both sides and underneath to release. It slides up under the handle to block it from being pulled down.

Secondly, you can take the approach of not reacting when she runs out i.e. "ok mummy's going to bed, good night so!" Pull door closed and walk away. She'll come running fairly fast. I find the less giving out/scene I make about bad behaviour, the quicker it's over.

Or, as mentioned above, "no bedtime story if you don't come in!" and actually mean it.

But seriously, start with getting a child lock on the patio door. You're doing your own legs in by not sorting that.

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