Deleted message, suspicious or not?

[Mellowmallow201]

My DP and I haven't been good recently. Just alot of bickering and arguing. DP text me and then sent another couple texts. I opened WhatsApp and saw the top message and then the bottom 2 were deleted. DP then starts typing and says I deleted the message it was about a holiday I found a deal for but it's actually more expensive than booking through the website.
I said why delete they couldn't you just have told me that without deleting it. Then I'm sent screenshots of these holidays. I asked again why delete? Reply was I was writing a message but thought it would be easier to delete.

Is this suspicious? Aibu for being suspicious?

Suspicious of what sorry?

I don't think I understand

Is the holiday a cover for something else? Why would anybody this be suspicious?

I'm forever deleting and editing my sent messages.
I get too excited and trigger happy and just press send but I'm too much of a perfectionist to leave any mistakes in there 😂

It sounds to me like you're overthinking this 100%. What do you think your partner said and then deleted?

They were messages to you that he deleted? What exactly are you suspicious about?

Overthinking. Sounds like you need this holiday!

You've forgotten to tell us what you're suspicious of??

We did split up briefing a few weeks back but managed to talk things through. Just wondered if perhaps they sent a text to the wrong person, hence deleting

Briefly*

You're unreasonable for wasting your time in a shit relationship.

I delete messages all the time if I no longer need to refer to them. I’d be seriously miffed if my husband thought I might be a cheat.

As an aside, if I delete a message I hate it when the other person asks me what it was. It means I end up explaining it was sent in error or whatever and then that normally prompts a conversation.

My DS does this a lot and I wish he'd just ignore it.

You are massively overthinking and reaching. I delete messages all the time if I realise what I said was wrong/ irrelevant. Nothing suspicious about it,

I'm sorry, but if he can't even delete a message to you without it making you 'suspicious', your relationship is pretty dysfunctional. He sent you a link to a holiday, realised it wasn't actually relevant, and deleted it. That's completely normal.

Are you just searching for stuff to argue about? Because this is definitely a reach... Just end the relationship if you are that unhappy.

He started writing you a message then changed his mind. It could have been about axe murder, it could've been about a massive lottery win...who knows. My DH sent me a mean text yesterday then it showed it sent to me again with a thumbs down and 'retracted' written on front. Lol. I just laughed. He was just moaning and didn't mean it.
What is suspicious about it?
You may not like him right now but there's bigger fish to fry surely.

You're probably feeling suspicious because things aren't great between you two.

Splitting up for a while is important context!
why do you think he’s cheating?
on its own I wouldn’t but why did you split up?

Sounds like you already have no trust so it doesn't rly matter

Yeah. You should stay split. You will drive each other crazy with lack of trust