What would you do

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Okay I'll keep it short basically earlier on today I was upstairs sleeping with my daughter because I didn't feel well, my partner was downstairs, he was listening to the song beautiful girl by Sean Kingston.. recorded a snip of the song and sent a message to someone saying I listen to this when I miss you and the kids, initially I thought it was coming to me, but it didn't.. so I thought nothing of it and thought maybe his sister or something, it's been playing on my mind for hours I looked on his phone recently to make a call and there are no messages to his sister, just his friends and obviously it's not going to his friends.. now I'm paranoid if I mention it he's obviously going to deny and I can't prove anything either.. and it will more that likely cause an argument. So what would you do?

"I heard you sending me that lovely message earlier, but I didn't get it yet, where is it!"

Do some digging without him knowing.

I suppose a couple things yeah, I'm quite chilled out and layed back to be fair so usually I don't think into things, but this has got my mind racing, he's up at night for hours when I'm asleep downstairs, never really questioned what doing I just assume his chilling out while the house is peaceful, has a tendency for accusing mr of being suspicious ect. He usually lets me on his phone whenever I want but anything can be deleted and removed

This is what I was thinking, maybe stay quiet for now and see what else come from it

Can you ask to look at his phone? Or does he have an ipad linked to the phone you could look at

Don't confront, just ask, without any accusation, as it's totally normal to be concerned and wonder if your partner said that and to who. Asking is fine.

Benefit of the doubt option: Has it been windy where you are? The mobile mast by us (we're pretty rural, there's just the one) has been out for a week or so. I don't get text messages unless I'm away from home.