Men who seem to think they have a right to critique how I look/what I wear.
The first guy, this was a while ago now, but he one day randomly told me that I had forgotten to shave a patch on my legs the first time he stayed over.
I have some purple veins on my thighs, not quite sure what they're caused by but one day he said 'you ought to get rid of those ugly purple veins'.
I used to have bad acne and he 'joked' once that he'd been embarrassed to be seen with me because of it.
He told me I had a big nose (I've had a nose job since)
Screamed at me over the top and trousers I was wearing asking why I can't wear 'normal clothes ' like other girls. Screamed at me that I looked like a lesbian because I got a pixie haircut once.
Second guy not as bad but still slightly douchey. Only seemed to like me with a bob, didn't like me with anything too short or too long. Got hair extensions once and he laughed his head off for about 2 hours and kept making jokes.
Had a fringe once and he just pulled a grimacing face.
Had a short pixie cut and he kept saying I'd had a 'mohican'.
Grabbed the skin on my arm and told me I could fit another arm in there (I am a size 6-8)
When I once wore a miniskirt he asked me who I was trying to impress and acted as if I were dressed to tout business.
Both men were slightly overweight and actually insecure in how they looked, they both admitted this and both admitted they had put me down to feel better about themselves.
It's vile and I didn't deserve it. Not sure how to avoid this in the future? I did nothing but compliment them, I would never have insulted their looks even for a second.
I'm single but scared to encounter this again.