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Taking the piss

11 replies

scribblingout · 07/04/2024 13:14

My sister has recently got married and I'm tired of the whole situation.

She has moved to live close to his family but she still expects the same amount of support from us.

She never makes an effort to come and see us and spends all her free time with his side of the family.

However, when the going gets tough, we are the ones to pick up the pieces. Not his side of the family.

I feel like all we get from her is the negative and the hard work.

Aibu?

OP posts:
pinkyredrose · 07/04/2024 13:15

Why are things so hard for her when she's only just got married?

HelloMiss · 07/04/2024 13:21

Why do you indulge it in the first place?

AGodawfulsmallaffair · 07/04/2024 13:23

Well, don’t.

ByUmberViewer · 07/04/2024 13:26

Why does she need support?

idontlikealdi · 07/04/2024 14:09

Why are you doing it? Detail....

WoodBurningStov · 07/04/2024 14:11

You don't 'have' to do anything for her

KnickerlessParsons · 07/04/2024 14:35

What "going" gets tough? And in what way?

whywonttheyeattheirfood · 07/04/2024 14:39

If she's mature enough to get married then she should be mature enough to be able to cope with life. Her husband should be helping her with any tricky stuff. Is she a drama lama?

Daffodilsarentfluffy · 07/04/2024 14:40

Presumably she is an adult. Is she disabled and relied on you for physical support before she got married? If not just get in with your life. Or refer her back to the dh she chose...

Alwaysalwayscold · 07/04/2024 14:42

Examples are needed

jeaux90 · 07/04/2024 15:19

Moved how far? What support does she require?

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