Lying about facebook

[Moominsarerealok]

I just want to get people's thoughts on this. I'm twice married, first husband was pretty how do I put it. Eh, deceitful and made me quite paranoid, he worked away and left me with the kids constantly, moved me away to a different place then fucked off to work knowing that I was left to deal with the kids.. That was hard, but, to the point, he said time and time again he wasn't on social media, don't go on, I'm no, he was and chatting to other women. Well I've just found out last 2 weeks my now husband is on social media and maybe not doing the same but he never told me and I feel like I've been lied to, he said he deleted it and just now I found out he's still on it, I feel the floodgates open and all the lies and I feel sick because ex done this to me, he can't see this is wrong, what do I do? Am I unreasonable??? 😭

OP, I say this with kindness, I really don’t think you’re going to get the support you need on here. It might be best to hide the thread and call someone, maybe a friend or family member. Bear in mind, people don’t know you on here and AIBU is quite straight talking. I get the sense you’re feeling quite vulnerable as upthread you’ve asked how to take this post down, so perhaps turn to some real life support and take care of yourself x

You said he's maybe not doing the same thing, and through the course of this short thread you've decided that he definitely is .and you've seen it.

I think PPs advice of hiding this thread and talking to someone irl is good.

This thread is clearly fuelling your paranoia.

So this is not about a lie around permission to have a FB account, but an issued of a cheating husband, yes?

Maybe he’s a bit embarrassed as FB is a very
uncool thing for elderly people to enjoy.

Yes.

I'm really sorry, I shouldn't of taken my worry and stuff and posted it, I should of waited and spoken to someone on the morning. Thanks for the really nice people though. Xx

Dont apologise for seeking help, I replied as I did because your post wasnt clear at all

So THIS husband is sexting other women?

Maybe have this moved to the relationship board where you will get good advice and empathy.

How is this an answer?